New 🐟 here! Currently make $150k, wife makes $50k. I’m an immigrant and came to the US with almost no money. Wife is a citizen but grew up poor. Neither of us really knows how to budget / plan for the future. So far I’ve just been reading articles on the internet and trying to follow general advice.

E.g. Rent and utilities is about 26% of take home.
15% goes to debt payments.
Savings about 25%.

Should I get a financial planner? How should I go about this? Idk why I’m stressed

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Build up a 6-month emergency savings account in cash then invest the rest in low cost index funds either in something like Robinhood if you like DIY or Wealthfront if you want a computer to do it for you

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Consultant, would you share with us why you made those recs? I don’t have a computer do my investing for me. I’ve used a useless financial planner then his best friend, a genius, who retired by age 40. I would base my investments on my location but I tend to view property as the wisest investment. It is of course only if you know how to manage it.
I’d LOVE to understand mutual funds but have never found a way to learn, so I made my first millions in property & my own skill sets in my field of practice. Property was a family business and I learned as a child.
If you have recs on great financial planners or how to learn about mutual finds (for liberal arts majors), I’d be very grateful.

You my man have an incredible story to tell! You cam with literally nothing but the clothes on your back and a lot of hope, courage and tenacity. I’d sincerely be interested in learning how you to a six figure salary.

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OP, new 🐟, It spunds line you are doing everything right & have the numbers working for you. If you are stressed, however, then you are stressed. What are you stressed about? Can you mentally feel around and ask yourself questions until you hit your triggers? Is your stress really related to money? Is it about financial planning? Or is it something else?
You’ve done the hard work of realizing that you are stressed. Can you also make sure that you talk with your wife about your concerns? You are not alone. Marriage is a partnership. Your partner maybe stronger & wiser than you are giving her the chance to show you.

Good luck. Great advice here for you! Let’s make sure we are addressing your real question or need.

I came to the US as a student with $3k and have built my net worth from scratch. I understand your anxiety. I am afraid to go back to square 1 and start all over. What helped me the most was to have visibility in my expenses. I used mint but now I have all my credit cards, bank accounts hooked up to my Fidelity account. Once a month I look at all my expenses and my income sources (I have a rental property). Listen to other folks about investing in index funds as a good way to grow your money ( after building emergency fund, funding 401k, hsa, backdoor Roth IRA, etc).
Even though I have a built a good safety net, I am cautious about our spending. I feel my husband I and I sometimes start to have lifestyle creep as most of our couple friends make significantly more money than we do (happy for them and they worked their way up). Tracking our expenses help us stay the course and build a healthy retirement savings. We don’t have kids and we don’t plan to have kids so we need to plan for healthcare during our retirement. Keep reading and doing your due diligence. Good luck and your will do great!

Financial planner is a good idea for helping you understand what is needed for a solid long term plan. Just be sure to engage on your own learning journey toward financial independence and stability. A financial planner can help you understand the landscape just be sure you understand that you need to be the "captain of the ship"

BTW, your savings rate is pretty healthy so I'd say you are a good position on that front.

For a retirement savings perspective take a look at this calculator to see what things might look like for you.
https://www.investor.gov/financial-tools-calculators/calculators/compound-interest-calculator

For reference th historical annual rate of return on the S & P 500 is around 10% so you might pop that in the calculator to see what that looks like

Play around with the values to see how they affect the outcome.

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