Newly single fish: when/how did you know you were ready to start dating again?

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when I was happy again!

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It’s important to take time for yourself. I was in an entanglement that ended badly because the guy didnt heal from his situation before...And now im the one who is broken...

I think the standard time it’ll take to feel ready is 3 months for every year of the relationship.

But honestly, play it by ear. For me it was just one day I felt a little more optimistic and hopeful and realized there could be a future for me with someone else. It’s how I knew I was ready.

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