No one warned me about the post-wedding come down 😭😭😭😭

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What were you like during wedding planning? Curious if this will happen to me. Right now all I can imagine is that I will be so thankful it’s over.

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I definitely stressed towards the end haha but I am a worrier so that was just maybe me
I thought it would be good to be done with the stress but I do miss the planning process so much, it did have some really fun moments too

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Same!! I was depressed for weeks!

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Going through this now too🥺

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