Anyone here ever worked for Ross Dress for Less as a store manager and is or has been a store manager would love to connect!
Hello Fishes, Can you please let me know what is the average yearly hike in Bosch Global Software Technology? Also, Where is BSGW located in Bangalore
Anyone from the animation industry? What sales strategies have helped you to get direct clients? What has helped you to get ad agencies as clients?
Hello all, as a transaction coordinator do you have any insight on a bonus structure and which would be better? A per file transaction bonus or a quarterly bonus with an end of year bonus, all based on performance.
Anybody have any tips for sleeping on a concrete floor? In a hospital room if that helps.
What is the minimum and maximum hike and RRP ,i can expect from optum as part of this year end hike.
I joined Optum in Aug.
When will we receive a hiked salary (letter and hiked salary).
When will we get the RRP credited.
Optum Tata Consultancy EY Deloitte Accenture
Trying to help my wife make a career change into a Customer Success role at a tech company with a strong customer facing product, and career path potential.
She comes from many years of customer service, web design and management, and e-commerce experience.
She’s got a few nibbles from LinkedIn, Slack, but hoping for some feedback from those who love their job and company.
Thanks in advance.
Dem billable hours...
Have any of your associations put out a climate and culture survey to your union members? I'm hearing that there are many districts that have surveyed their members anonymously regarding assessing the climate and culture within their school community.
If so, would you please provide me with a list of possible questions that you would deem to be appropriate and effective to gauge any possible issues?
Naturally, the questions need to be without bias and completely anonymous. No Google forms.
I love the smell of patchouli.
One of my friend having 1-2 yrs of experience looking for job in Java/spark development. Response will be appreciated . Tata Consultancy Infosys
I used to believe my AC is super cute based on her zoom pic
I met her in office last week and boi I am never trusting photos again in my life
I am switching from patient care front desk with a eye Dr clinic to patient care in a hospital. I'm worried about learning all the codes I'll need to learn. Is there a resource site or something i can start reviewing codes?
Has anyone in partner ranks been able to take an actual, fully disconnected vacation of at least a full work week in the last 18 months? Genuinely curious.
Any recommendations on mood boosting vitamins? Experiencing some depression around period and wondering if anyone here has advice. Currently eat relatively healthy but I do not take any vitamins or anything mold boosting (no meds either)
Is Senior Associate Consultant the correct designation for 6 years of experience at Infosys in the SAP practice?
I recently received my first offer for a backend engineer position. Is $70k base reasonable for salary? Excited to get an offer, but does that seem low to anyone else?
REG - Becker. Where do they first introduce the MYLEGS mnemonic in the lecture videos? I can’t remember or find it
My husband has had a really good year in his business and we’re now sitting at $200k in the bank. Don’t think that’s they right place but not stoked about housing prices right now. Thoughts on how to grow our wealth?
Additional Posts in Addiction & Sobriety
I’ve got about 8.5 years and still struggle with dealing with friends who get drunk and are complete assholes. I know I should have empathy but I just want to kick their ass. What I should do is Thank God (agnostic) I am sober today. If I was drinking I would have kicked his ass, faced the consequences, made amends, and lost friend(s).
Sibling is 52 days sober from heroin/cocaine, but I just found a syringe and alcohol wipes under their pillow.
They have been passing observed urine tests, how is it possible that they’re using? Any ideas?
Anyone know of or recommend any alcohol treatment centers in Northern VA? Trying to get my pops in
Recovering alcoholic here 🖐 day 1. What are your strategies for doing something productive to combat stress instead of grabbing a drink?
I saw this in the consulting bowl:
First in-person retreat in a while coming up and first for me at this particular firm. Several people have mentioned that much of the bonding etc happens while drinking. I am newly sober and now worried about being in this environment, any tips for making it through the weekend? Similar experiences?
Does anyone have any advice for supporting and coping with someone going through withdrawal? My husband is trying to quit his weed addiction and he has been irritable and mean since he quit. His mood is erratic and he is constantly annoyed w me. I don't even know how to bring this up without setting him off. Just feel like I'm walking on eggshells and I'm emotionally exhausted at this point. Is there anything I can do to help him? Is there anything I can do to help myself cope?
Ex wife gets married tomorrow. Didn’t think it was bothering me but I dropped my kids off at her house for the rehearsal and I’m struggling to keep distracted. I know having a drink only destroys the trust I’ve rebuilt, but I don’t want to feel like this.
Do we have any other runners in this group? I have found that it can be hard, painful, grueling, challenging, and incredibly humbling. Challenging myself to run, when I just want to escape by doing nothing is always the better option. My stressful day/ situation melts away and even if I feel like crap due to the heat, fatigue, or non-stop hills it’s better than a hangover 100% of the time.
My boyfriend of a year got a DUI this weekend and has had drinking problems in the past. He fully admits he is an alcoholic, and will do therapy/go to AA moving forward. My therapist suggested I be a “computer program running in the background” and essentially leave him to allow him to work on himself. This is obviously a really hard decision, and I feel like I should listen to my therapist, but my heart is pulling me the other way. Anyone else been through something similar or have advice?
Rule 62: “Don’t take yourself so damn seriously.“
A bit scratchy, but very cool to hear Bill’s voice: https://www.aa.org/Bill-W-on-the-origin-of-Rule-62
How do you practice Rule 62? (Or how could you, if you currently aren’t 😏)
Friendly reminder: You are not in this alone. Reach out to one of us. Go to a meeting. Talk to your support group. I know the holidays can be rough.
Someone in my firms bowl just wrote about needing to pass a drug test. Out of 40 replies mine was the only one to say, ‘Get the help you need’ ... we use substances (pick your poison) to mask feelings and emotions. They all recommended ways to treat the symptom (request different engagement, stall it out, fake urine, etc). I hope theirs good people out there where I work, otherwise I may be looking to jump ship to protect my sobriety. Sobriety is no. 1 above all else. Grateful for 65 days sober
I hit my 6-month mark tomorrow. I’d be lying if I said it was easy the last few weeks, work has really stressed me out recently but I keep reminding myself how much better things have gotten and go do something. I’ve found restoring old tools has been a great way to keep myself busy. Thank you all for the support, keep coming back!
Has anyone tried using Kratom to help with an addiction to opiates? Does Kratom itself get addictive if you start using it for a while?
I’ve been sober for a few months and there are a few cocktail parties coming up at work. It’s “encouraged” to attend. Any advice? I have been to a couple backyard parties over the summer where I was around alcohol but I was mostly among friends. This is going to be different. Anyone else ever have a situation like this? Any advice is appreciated.
Status check - how's everyone doing? Should we start a weekly meeting in this bowl? Like a virtual meeting?
Stopped drinking a year ago after a particularly rough period. Lately I’ve been having thoughts and considerations around starting again. I think my friend circle has changed a lot so I wouldn’t fall into that crazy party lifestyle. Has anyone stopped then started again successfully? I never drunk THAT much but it was impacting my life (sending stupid messages I shouldn’t have been sending) and getting blackout occasionally. I do think it was having a negative impact on my life
How does your significant other handle your relapse? I’m 5 years sober overall but relapsed / slipped recently and my spouse isn’t speaking with me. I know alcoholism is hard on loved ones but I’ll do your spouse cut you off? How to deal with it?
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I go out and drink like and soda. Made me realize that some friends I liked, and others were just drinking buddies. So i kept some friends, and made some new friends.
Ill try going out and doing lime and sodas.
I write blog posts that no one reads haha I still go out sometimes with my friends but not drinking makes it easier to see how your “real” friends are 🙃 you got this!
True that. Also, remember your friends are losing their drinking buddy too so they are adapting to you not drinking. Some will stick around and respect your decisions and the rest are obviously not your friends.
I stopped drinking for 14 months. 7 months in I was lonely and depressed. I went to an A.A. meeting and made a ton of friends instantly. I learned that people in A.A. are completely sober lol. I still went and was honest about being alcohol free and people welcomed me. I went back out for a couple years and now I’m completely sober.
I go to concerts, dinners, bowling, skating, the beach, jog, workout, yoga, Netflix etc, then of course anything like holiday parties work mixers ... I just order club soda limes