NYC daters: How did you know that they were the one?

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How did you know that they were NOT the one?

Any single men want to chat? 30/f

What are the best fall-themed date activities around here?

Men, do you consider sexually inexperienced women as a turnoff?

Will be traveling to NYC in a few weeks.

Any F 🐠 would like to go out for drinks / dinner casually?

M 39 here...

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

Guy i was talking to for months: i kept making it clear i dont want a casual hookup (we’re both in our 30s so we’re mature enough)- he said “same here and here is why this is not a hookup for me either” multiple times.1st met up in apt. Had fun but no hookup. 2nd time we hooked up (both tested for antibodies) because we both just wanted to out of immense loneliness and cant go out on a date. Texting reduced suddenly(from daily to none). I was still nice about it, asked if he wants to not talk &.

If you met in an app and you’ve been texting, should you block the other person from seeing you using the app since nothing is exclusive yet or is that weird?

Just started following Cameron Hamilton from Love is Blind on social media and he is 🔥! If you favor him in looks and height and are looking for a serious relationship DM me.

Moving to SF from NYC as a single straight guy (31m), how screwed will I be from a dating perspective lol

Are dudes expected to carry the conversation on dating apps? Or is it just me?

No motivation to get out of bed

Anyone just want to talk for few hours? Unapologetic night conversation m. M33 Nyc

34 F, looking for fun loving simple guy for something meaningful.

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

I don’t have the personality to be in PA but I love this job and want to stay here as long as I can. How do I conquer my introverted ness and make it less cringe-y and awkward?

Hi, I am looking for a male single occupancy in 2bhk/3bhk in a gated society in Hinjewadi phase 1/2/3 or wakad. (2bhk/3bhk empty flats work too as I can find flatmates later). Move in date - asap
Vegetarian preferred. Please share leads if any.

Any M up for a chat?

I find myself whiling away most of my weekend on Grindr and other dating apps. >90% of the time is wasted and doesn't lead to anything. I know it's a black hole but I still keep going back. Off late, I've realized that more than anything else, I'm just lonely and don't have much else to do. I go there craving sort of connection and human interaction. In my late 20s - don't have too many friends. The ones I do are also busy pairing off and settling down. Anybody else in the same boat?

I just want a boyfriend that can do all kinds of stuff with me like going to shows, exploring neighborhoods, cycling, cooking, baking, checking out restaurants, plant shopping, and having amazing sex. Why is it so hard ugh

I’m an HR Generalist. My job is a mix of recruitment and Employee Relations. I find the recruitment aspect to be pretty enjoyable and stress free, but the Employee Relations aspect does often give me a lot of anxiety (I’m a very anxious person to begin with). Recently, it’s been worse because I have several ER cases currently that seem like they could be potentially turning into lawsuits. Do others in ER experience these anxieties? If so, how do you manage them?

It blows my mind that I need three separate passwords to get into my computer but we don’t have our own printers in each office. I can’t tell you have many times someone has picked up my stuff off the printer or i’ve accidentally taken someone else’s.

Best TV ads you’ve ever seen for issue awareness/non-profit?

Hi Fishes
What does designation lead rep quant analysis means.

Any good meet up for startups in London, UK?
Looking to network with founders and investors

I’m a newly barred attorney in Atlanta, Ga and I need two things: (1) a mentor who has time to be a mentor; and (2) a job opportunity. I am open to being a staff attorney or junior associate. CAN YALL HELP ME PLEASE?!?

I am extremely burnt out at my current firm. I was recently offered an interview by opposing counsel and have been passively looking at other jobs (to keep me sane). I am planning on quitting but more importantly I want to take a month or so off before really looking for a job. Should I just take time to recharge or should I just mass apply?

I’m looking to carve out my career in HR. I have 2 years in a dedicated HR Coordinator role (essentially with Generalist duties) and 5+ years in senior level hospitality management. I’m interested in getting my PHR or getting a certificate in data analytics with business/HR focus. Thoughts on next steps?

What impact has the prestige of your school had on your career?

I have a few questions for people in consulting roles (both external/internal).

My partner is in corporate banking, but he wants to switch to a consulting/strategy-based role. I noticed people with those jobs typically have an MBA, and also majority of the job ads in similar roles has MBA as either a requirement or preferred qualification. So:

1) does MBA actually improve someone's chance in getting those roles?
2) are there any good Canadian MBA programs you'd recommend?

Thank you all!

How valuable is a MBA in Cyber industry?

Has anyone tried CBD for depression or social anxiety before/at work? Are you still productive? Do you notice a difference?

Your go-to Chelsea boot?

I was having a great morning and feeling productive till I decided to get a sandwich and coffee from Starbucks. 2 hours later, I have food poisoning. I've heard of life comes at you fast, but this was just unnecessary, and I hate life.

Who is in the mood to rage/let loose tonight? Let’s hear your plan!

I’m horrible at setting boundaries with work (mostly because I like what I do). Can anyone share successful ways of setting boundaries?

As a 40+ woman, my adoration of Miley Cyrus music seems very misplaced. Currently listening to ATTENTION: Miley Live.

I recently met my close friend’s boyfriend and he made a good impression…until he tackled me. Now I don’t know how to raise it with my friend. My friend and I live in different parts of the country so I was looking forward to both of them visiting me since it seems like her happiest relationship. We were enjoying a picnic in the park by the lake and I don’t even know why but he started saying he wanted to rassle me (or however wrestling would be spelled in a fake accent) but (Cont…)

What agencies are allowing for remote staff producers?

Best place for botox from a dermatologist? It will be my first time and I can’t get side effects like droopy eye because I plan to go about 6 weeks before my wedding. I prefer a derm to a med spa. Thank you.

Relocating to NYC in a month and just started looking into apartment hunting. Would love some tips and advice from you guys. Primarily looking in midtown area if that makes a difference

Any good idea for venues for a group event that would be fun and interactive as opposed to just a happy hour? Similar to spin on 23rd.

Any recommendations for adult (32m here) swim lessons in the city? I’ve been wanting to learn how to swim (guess it’s never too late) and trying to look for an affordable swim classes. Thanks!

Everyone in nyc let’s start a petition to the mayor. Rents are out of control with people at $120k being forced to pay $2800 for studios. This is illegal.

Coming back to the city for the first time since I left for covid tomorrow. Any food recs? Hit me with anything you got!

Building just let me know of a 40% rent increase starting in January. Anyone else experience similar?

Is Elmhurst a good / safe area to llive? Also wondering how much is water / heat when it's not included in the utilities?

Thoughts on Caraway cookware set? Any other recs?

Is 20% tip considered the norm?

Math help needed. If my Jersey rent is 2400/ mo, 28,800 annually. 18% of that is 5,184.
What happens now on NJ tax is what I am confused about. Do I get a $5000 refund? 😳

Does anyone have a side gig as a building super?

Where is the absolute best place to see the sunset?

Need advice for condo (no condo op) shopping in the city. My budget is 750K and I can put 10% down. I’m open to manhattan (no higher than 145th), Brooklyn. Is there anything I should be mindful of as I look for places and does anyone have advice? Im also making sure im avoiding high HOA/maintenance

What are some good places to meet people in this city?

Hallo, where did everyone shop for their wedding dresses in nyc (or farther out) and any tips on getting them? Any major or sample sales? Help a girl out please!