Officially the last single person in my family. Feels so good and people are so nosy about everyone’s personal life that I skipped the big celebrations.

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

If you’re a person in this group managing people, ask yourself, am I a person that inspires my team, or will I be the reason someone experiences trauma for the rest of their lives. I will share the story of my sister in IT. At the start of her career she worked under an Indian boss in Northumbria University who was racist to her. He exaggerated mistakes and spoke in a demeaning manner at every opportunity. He was nicer to other Indians and whites but treated my sister in this nasty....

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

I’m feeling so depressed. My project is remote and I hate it but no way out. Looking for a new job. I just moved out on my own after living with parents, but now I cry all the time even though (contd)

Hi folks, looking for recommendations of a nanny/manny or night nanny/manny. Located in Denver. Thank you!

Do any parents have a Lovevery discount code? Also, are there other similar services I should look it? Our LO is due in 3 weeks. So, I want to get him off to a good start.

Hi All

I have 2 offers in hand 1 from tcs of 15 LPA and another from Optum of 18 LPA. Point is i have a small 8 month old kid. Due to this, i need a job which will be less hectic so that i can take care of her( i dont want to leave her to maid). So which will be a better option fr me.

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Would you be upset if your SO showed up at your house without an invitation but knew you were going to be in the neighborhood?Even if you weren't expecting them, would you leave them outside knowing they were there?

Binge watched Looking over the weekend and my heart is broken because of the ending. I hate unhappy endings and they make me depressed for days.

How do you get over the fact that your
bf (who is super active on social media
and USED to post you without you
asking) just never does it anymore?
You don't suspect him of cheating or
anything like that, he just doesn't think
to do it anymore. I don't want our
fights to be around social media, and
honestly am embarrassed even typing
out this post, but it’s been on my mind lately.

Anyone else having relationship issues since conora? Anyone know if divorce rate has increased?

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

I’m spending Christmas at my boyfriend’s family. I accidentally hugged his sister’s boyfriend because I can’t distinguish them in the dark 🙃🥴🥲

Said goodbye to a 3 year old today. I don't know where to start

Any married couples that are both attorneys? Wondering how it is with having kids- paternity and maternity leave and beyond (ie, did someone have to take a step back from work or arrangements made)?

Desi guys look for american born desi girls or white girls for their American adventures or sought of to fulfill their American fantasies but when it comes to settling down, they go back to the age old "my parents want me to choose a girl from India" BS. Sick of it!

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

I'm an engineer and I love building things but based on what I've seen about Gen Z, I think I'm going to raise my kids in a less modern style. No TV, no internet, at least until a certain age.

Have any of you ever boomeranged back to your old agency and if so why?

Someone attended airbus .net developer interviews recently??

What kinds of questions should I expect for a director's role in an interview?

How long do buy side mandates typically take once you’ve engaged with a seller?

Startup people - can the strike price of your options change? Let’s say I sign today, but then have to start a few months later because of a personal emergency- can the strike price change and dilute your value? How often does this happen / what magnitude? Thank you!

Anyone at DU next week? I’m there T-F

YOE: 2.5 , 8.5lpa
Technology stack : Java , Spring boot
I have changed two companies in this period.. preparing for interviews

How much should I demand with HR? Please share ur thoughts fishes

Thanks

Any news on layoffs?

How do you answer this question “What race are you?” Seems simple but as someone of Latin American geographic decent it seems more complex than Asian, black, native America, or White. No brown box !

Looking for a venue where I can host a party (grad party) of ~30 people. Something like a bar where we can all stand around. Somewhere not far from to the loop - within 3 miles.
Anyone have recs in mind?

Looking for a part-time/moonlighting opportunity doing consulting while being a full-time consultant at a firm. Any ideas?

Hi Fishes what do think of opportunities in Coimbatore? Is it growing and does it have any scope in the future?

Hello, I have applied for Quality analyst IJP and next round is personal interview, Can somebody guide me on how to approach this interview?

🤣Okay FAAS people, let's plan on how to grow into the new “SaT + consulting” of Assurance Co

I've been hearing many PERM recruitment campaigns are failing/unsuccessful. Anyone else hearing the same at your firms?

I am in project in Accenture and suddenly I received a message regarding new Project team message from different clients from Accenture.


And they mentioned that they are from RMG team

I declined for further communication and asked them for formal email.

Do I need to communicate this incident to my manager?

Looking for women 🐠 to sub in for coed soccer tonight. Game time is 10PM tonight at RFK fields complex.

Looking for a structural and/or civil engineer in the greater Phoenix area looking to make extra income on the side. Projects are typically smaller in nature, but there can be a lot of them. We schedule around your availability.

I feel like a lot of straight guys would benefit from a woman friend reviewing their dating profiles to tell them which pictures to use.

📣📣📣 New Singles Bowl has been created so if you aren't getting any action here - come join us. We have a team of active matchmakers working in the background to match folks up by location 📣📣📣

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34F will be in NYC in mid-September and mid-October, any 40+M bourbon/whiskey/scotch drinkers want to get drinks?

New here. 35M NYC metro area.

I’ve noticed there are a lot of folks from the East coast. Figured it would be interesting to see where everyone is from. You can post anything else you’d like others to know about as well.

Any 30+ plus female fish in nyc want to get dinner this weekend

I’ll see everyone on the Zoom call this eve (6 pst)! Message if you run into issues

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Advice needed please 🙏🏻 for datings apps: when should one reveal that one has a kid?? I’m 38F with a 5 year old and I get the impression men run miles from me

Sunday night, best show to start binge watching on Netflix? For a happy yet lonely girl. Lol.

What's everyone looking for at the moment (1) someone who can help you become a housewife/husband (2) partner in crime (3) travel buddy (4) marriage (5) marriage with kids?

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Wonder how badly lop sided (Men to Women ratio) this bowl is?

Single and looking to change that. 40F, Toronto. Ex-consultant if it matters 🙃.

Any fishes up and looking to get to know each other? 32, male, straight, 6’4”, athletic, etc.
I am a pretty good cook and have found a recent love for cooking Asian food in woks. I dream of a mountain house with gas stoves, and a sun room. Though would accept a condo for more sleep these days haha

Visiting San Diego in a few weeks. Any F wants to meet and grab drinks ?

Any single ladies looking for a handsome cub? 😉😘 DM 28AZ