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On a really tough project requiring cross-country travel weekly. It's been a really tough lifestyle transition to be away from my friends and family.

On top of that, I'm stuck between "this is awesome experience for my career" and "I'm so overwhelmed and overworked." I know I need to take care of myself but I'm in such a constant state of stress that I don't. I'm losing sleep, I feel unhealthy, getting sick often, etc.

This is such an unsustainable path but I don't know what to do.

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You know what to do- lose this job. There are good jobs where you don’t need to sacrifice your health and everything important to you.

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Take some time off to recharge, or find a project with no travel time.

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