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One friend announces an engagement, another announces a baby, and I'm sitting here on a Friday night baking cookies and coloring. Making thirty look shitty.

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So you have cookies, pretty pictures, and nothing waking you up at 2 am to be fed or screwed...sounds like you're winning.

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Woohoo 30! I actually envy that kind of night. You have no one else to consider but yourself. Free of responsibility and expectations of others until Monday!

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Also, what kind of cookies?

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Feels like I was 21 yesterday.

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Pwc 3 - that's what I thought too, but it came up very negative in my review. Really shocked me.

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30 is OK, 35 is worse

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Pwc 3 - yeah, except for all the work I still have this weekend :)

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Any issues being a 30yo staff? I'm also staff at 30 and I get the occasional snobby side eyes

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AS 1 - I think the thing that bothers me most is having no control over my schedule when we travel. I feel like I'm 30 years old, I want to eat dinner when I'm hungry and I don't need to get drunk every night anymore. I'd rather relax and work in my room at night and I hate having to ask permission of someone else to go back to my room.

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1986 ? :)

Yeah, 86.

Go party

Just do it. No one is forcing you to hang out with the team. I'm a people person so I don't mind, but you're also free to be an adult and make that decision. AS1- I think I'm the only one with the complex about it, but no one else seems to care.

Really??? I mean I believe in team bonding and I think that is important, but they shouldn't force people to be at every single social event. Sometimes you just need me time and you see these people all day every day. Sorry about that OP :/.

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