One month into the job and I’m struggling. No clear direction or much coaching from my manager, feel like I have no idea what I’m doing and it’s killing my confidence. Does it get better?

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That is pretty standard in consulting, so while the circumstances likely won’t get better, you’ll adapt and become more confident over time. There are some really great skills you’ll develop from this in terms of being able to navigate ambiguity. Keep your chin up, you’ll be fine

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I think it usually gets better, consulting can be tough though because you often have to live in the ambiguity. I’ve been feeling like this too and I’m determined to make it better but I am also realizing consulting probably isn’t for me in the long run.

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If you have strong analysts in your team they’re also a great source for support and learning, see if you can observe them and ask them for advice, too.

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