One of my friends had a breakdown because I am more successful and she is intimidated that I am friends with her boyfriend (we were friends before she came along). Should I try to save the friendship?

Anyone feel as if it’s hard to stay with a company when you’re the only one of color? (&young) I’ve work for 3 companies in past 5 years and have yet to make meaningful colleague relationships. I just do not relate to the conversation and just find it hard to picture myself being a long-term employee. I’ve had better relationships when working at wal-mart when I was in college. I feel it takes away some of the joy of having to go to work.

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

Deeply struggling with the decision to get divorced or not, and it’s having negative mental and physical effects. Seeing a therapist but wondering if anyone can suggest additional resources to help

Op-Ed: As a black man with parents from Africa, I feel like Black people have been receiving reparations for decades now. Any further reparations are most likely going to be a waste of resources and regressive—especially if their fiscal.

Take someone like me:

A. Grew up in a single parent home with six brothers.

B. Had to move eight times in eight years because we were always renting a house.

C. I have three brothers who are either in jail or is a recovering addict.

But me (cont’d)...

I am curious how you guys would handle a parent that is always doing my student's homework for them. It is just writing practice and letter formation. I like my student to practice frequently and it is quite evident that her mom just does her work every night. I am a little frustrated. TIA

Bf said on video he made his decision to breakup, and asked to meet on Sunday to talk in person. If he’s already decided, what’s the point of meeting up and break up one more time? (He said we have very different values. He thinks I look for stability, quality time, family, have a place, someone to come home to when he wants to travel and build businesses. He feels like the relationship is not letting him do what he wants to do at max capacity because of resistance he feels from me)

Guy asked to switch seats with me to sit next to his aging mother and I caved because it’s just an hour flight. I did think hard about it for a bit though.

Has anyone ever seen a sex therapist with their significant other? Did it help? Looking for honest feedback. My wife and I have not been on the same page with sex and it’s affecting other areas of our relationship too.

Been broken up for awhile..dated other people and developed serious feelings for someone else. It didn’t work out but I thought I had moved on till my ex moved to the same city and we started hanging out since I was helping them settle in. Saw we changed so much..in a good way and got along so well Yesterday he pocket dialed me nonstop and I heard his date even when I didn’t want to. I felt bad and now I’m questioning if I never really moved on.. it sucks how much it hurts even now after 2 years

Going through a terrible breakup. Whenever I wake up, either in the morning or from a nap, I immediately uncontrollably cry because of the immediate thought that he is no longer next to me. The worst part is that we’re living together still (not talking or sleeping in the same room). I can’t even imagine what it will be like when we can finally break our lease. Does this feeling ever end?

Unsure if my bf and I are incompatible or if I’m not compromising enough. How do you know the difference? He has so many great qualities that I love but also lacks some qualities that I would like to have but idk if I would be giving up on someone that is great for little things.

Noticed few posts where someone is seeking job referral on behalf of someone...

Just wondering why can't sister, brother or a friend try on their own than saying others to seek help for them ??? Spoon feeding chal raha h kya 😐

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

Sitting here, three double IPAs in, realizing I have no friends. Officially a “campus” hire from grad school and moved to a new city with job offer. Didn’t even consider how consulting cont.

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

How often do people here make a trip to see their parents? Used to think this would be highly correlated to geographic proximity to parents but among my friends, not really the case. Some live an hr away and rarely get together whereas some are intercontinental and see each other more. What’s your average or goal? I used to manage every other month in my 20s but with a spouse in my 30s has become more like quarterly between his family commitments and mine

Cheated on my ex here and there throughout our 2 years together. When covid hit, I broke it off after a few months bc we couldn't see each other for who knew how long and it was causing a lot of fighting. I realized soon after I love and miss her but now she's already with another guy. What should I do to get over it? I've tried hooking up with random girls but none of that helps fill the hole she's left in me 😞 idk if I'll find anyone as perfect as her again

Moving to a new place and want to get roommates for the social aspect, but feel weird about having roommates when I make as much as I do. First world problems.

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

Been feeling like a POS lately and constantly having negative thoughts. Just wanted to put it out there, need to be said. Thank you

Anyone know much about seattle/bellevue area? Looking to relocate from DC area.

Thoughts on getting an Acura RDX? I’m DC based.

Any recs for a solid men’s haircut in West LA / Santa Monica?

Data Scientist & Senior Consultant at IBM in the commercial space. Thinking about moving to a bigger firm with more work. Any advice on how to land another gig, without the drawn out process?

Hi I am a digital marketer with a MBA in Marketing Management and 4 years of experience in Social, SEO and Growth Marketing. I am looking for an opportunity at any of the FAANG companies or any Service based Tech companies in US. Thanks In advance

Can anyone refer me for any position in big 4? I am a fresher and did bcom honours.

Can someone refer me for the security analyst role in your organization.

Extreme newbie in personal finance. Confused about the difference between Roth IRA and just a traditional HYSA? Can anyone provide insight? Seems like I’m doing the same thing with both

Hello Fishes,

Wanted to know if Airbus usually have the onsite short trips to UK or France?

Also do they provide cab facility to banglore office?

Thanks in Advance and Happy Diwali to All!!

My in person onboarding was on 10th October. I went for the same and attended the sessions as well. I didn't have my relieving letter so they postponed my onboarding to 17th October. But I didn't receive any onboarding email. Also on 1st November 120 days of my offer will be completed. As per the TCS policy I have to join within 120 days. Recruiter and HR are not responding. Any insight on my situation?

On my way to the AHIP conference in Nashville - any others attending?

who has experience working with bubble? wondering if it’s a good platform for me to start building an idea on… very early stages but thinking it can help me be as lean as possible until getting to an actual product / prototype

Not the best at planning trips, but want to visit Jackson hole for a weekend for the views & outdoors. Does anyone have a recommended itinerary they could share?

Reached out to a recruiter on Linkedin about a role I liked, thought it was far fetched but now they want to schedule a call lol tips for recruiter screening at a boutique IB??

Hi everyone! I’d love to hear your thoughts on EEO surveys during the job application process. Is it more beneficial to self-disclose or refrain from disclosing race, gender, disability, etc?

Which method is more likely to get your application noticed? Any guidance would be helpful on my job hunt. Thank you.

I have a JP Morgan code interview happening soon for a data science position. Anything I should know before I get started?

Anyone who has seen the movie “get out” how do you feel about it? I’ll be honest, I was scared of white girls after that movie. 🤣🤣🤣

I though people would be talking about the Bill by now, do you all not care? Thoughts about the Stimulus checks? When will people get it?

Do you have a movie you could watch over and over again? I have a lot, but lately it’s Ready Player One and The Martian. Easily seen both 10+ times.

Is it tacky wearing a polo to client site with your undergrad logo? I already wear polos and jeans Mondays/Thursdays and rolled up button downs and khakis Wednesday/Thursday.

im on a call with my director and im really sad about something that happened in my personal life and im holding in my tears waiting for this call to end so i can ball my eyes out

Do you think audit is dying? Is public accounting losing its prestige? I have been noticing that no one in my class or even generation is interested or motivated in this industry anymore . It’s sad to watch smart kids wanting to change careers

Would you share how old you are, Job title, how much you make, amount of savings in bank and IRA or any other retirement account balance? Gender, Race - Any other info you don’t mind sharing...

Any girls in here named Alexa? Has you life been ruined by Amazon devices?

Is anyone else taking advantage of WFH and applying to foster a dog?

Sunday night me: I'm going to get an early start tomorrow so I can finish last week's timesheet and create a to-do list for the week.

Monday morning me: it's going to be cold when I leave the covers. Maybe I will get up in May.

What suggestions do you have to make moving easier to another state?

Not exactly unprofessional... But how did you tell ur team/boss that you're pursuing a transfer/interviewing for other positions?

Can straight guys and girls every just be friends? Every straight guy friend I have ever had has either expressed romantic or sexual interest at least once in our friendship or vice versa.

Talked major shit about my job at dinner after a couple drinks in front of a couple coworkers. Should I be worried??

U ever have a bad day at work and question ur career choice