One of my recommender asked me to draft a letter for them. Is this a common practice? Not sure how to write a letter about myself from their perspective. I’m worried it will stand out in a bad way / weaken my overall application.

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My recommender requested this and instead I provided very detailed bullets, paragraph by paragraph and then pushed onto them to bring it all together.

Worked out well because I had a hand in crafting the narrative on the points I wanted emphasized the most.

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Id recommend you give them plenty of guidance and as much of the story as possible, but stop short of writing the letter. It’s going to be tough for you to make the recommendation sound different from your essays, a huge red flag for adcoms IMO. Be really mindful of that.

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It seems not unusual. Would strongly recommend not actually writing the letter. It's ethically dubious, and as AP1 said, a not insubstantial risk of being caught.

By all means, help your writers out. Share drafts of your essays, talking points and experiences you'd like highlighted, tell them why the schools you picked. but do not write their letters for them.

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Not unusual. It didn’t happen to me, but I did fully prepared my recommenders. I gave them a packet including my resume, a list of professional accomplishments, bullets on why an MBA, and rationale on why each school.

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Yes it’s happened to me before. Consider it an advantage and wordsmith that recommendation!

Totally agree with the above. I would prepare as much as possible for your recommenders but not actually write it as it will sound just like your essays.

Agree with all of the above. Also, several of the applications I submitted clearly stated that writing your own letter was against their honor code and asked me to sign something/check a box stating I understood and agreed. If that type of thing means something to you.. I would advise against it. You can also use these policies as an explanation to your recommender of why you are unable to do what they asked.

Mine asked me to do that as a launching point, and then basically rewrote it to fit their thoughts / writing style :) I thought that worked out pretty well

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