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Where i get job security, wlb . Looking only for next 2 yrs then will switch to good product based company. Currently working in Verizon. 5 days more to last working day
Tech : java, Microservices. Yoe:5
When do you Code freeze before a release?
We are devlivering a major injcrement in 1 1/2 weeks and have not created a release branch yet but keep merging large feature branches.
Males can build relationships with senior males by going out for drinks or lunch. I as a younger female feel uncomfortable doing that yet it puts me at a disadvantage vs peers. Any advice?
so is Valuation just audit in a batman costume?
After traveling the whole week, it feels great to relax and stay in. Wouldn’t trade it for anything else.
I am student at IIIT expected 2022. If anyone has any open positions at their company please do refer. I am open to 6 month intern offer from Jan-June and also for Full time offers.
Like what is this?
Any good source to learn java microservices from scarth with some real-time projects
Udemy or youtube or any other source.
If any one knew please let me know
J'inaugure le bowl avec une question covid : quelles sont les politiques de vos entreprises en terme de retour au travail? BCG propose deux jours par semaine mais le teletravail reste recommandé.
Does CITI send the laptop before joining or do we need to collect it from the office as I heard that the offices are partially open?
Anyone use Ubiquity for a 401k plan?
Can I please get some likes to open my ability to use Direct Message?! Greatly appreciated.
I think the same could be said about teaching.
How do you survive your first 1-2 years? As far as still managing to eat well, sleep, and hit the gym, have friends, etc. How did you balance all of this?
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I feel like I have no friends. :(
Opinions on AbleTo?
Hi friends. In the happiest 5 year relationship ever. Then suddenly my boyfriend breaks and held my prior anxiety and panic attacks against me. He yelled at me in a way I’ve never experienced. He’s always been so comforting to me (and I have been to him when he’s upset). I know he’s close to proposing. I’m lying here in bed wondering if this relationship can be salvaged after what was said. I don’t feel like he can accept me when my mental health is struggling. How do I move past it?
I don’t know who needs to hear this. But I was having problems sleeping long, peacefully and enough. I would always feel tired and uninterested. Tried weighted blanket recently and it’s working like a charm. Do check out, I hope this helps someone.
How do you deal with stress? My body isn’t in a great spot or else I would lean towards working out. I plan on getting back into therapy to deal with my anxiety and depression. Any other ideas?
I am so tired of it all. I’ve barely eaten in the last 3 days and had to take a painkiller last night to fall asleep. I’m so overworked and I constantly feel like a piece of sh*t. I don’t even have the energy to move right now and feel like I will faint any minute.
Hi folks. Looking to leave the firm - I’m completely burned out and wake up daily with feelings of absolute dread. I need a break - 2 to 3 months - of not working to re-evaluate my life. I’m thinking of just quitting but was suggested to take a short term disability leave of absence, as it’s paid and benefits/job status are retained. Anyone else go this route and can provide how the process works in terms of how to get medical clearance and general guidance/advice?
I have constant health issues and they really get me down. Nothing life threatening, but enough to lower my quality of life. What do you guys do to cope?
My SO is going through a depressive state. We’re on a break as he tries to get better. Anyone else gone through this? How do I support him? I didn’t want to go on break so its been hard. Advice?
I’m having a really hard time facing my problems lately. I don’t know how to get motivated to do my job before things get worse, I just don’t care.
I just feel like screaming.
Im having crazy anxiety about this training session I have to give tomorrow morning. How do you calm yourself before a big presentation without meds?
After 5 years of layoffs and no career progression, I feel like shit and am turning into a bitter and repulsive person, effectively the kind of person I would hate.
I was extremely ambitious and have been excellent at every role but now that same ambition is killing me knowing that I am an underachiever and an embarrassment to myself.
My mind is killing me in a ruthless fashion. Not sure how much more of this I can take. No question, just needed to vent I suppose.
Finally decided to request my LOA🙏. Can anyone advice me on next steps? I’m not sure if I should put workers comp because they said if I’m stressed with work then that’s a part of it but …idk. AND I spoke to my loa advocate and she’s telling me that I may not even get paid leave? I honestly can’t afford to take an unpaid leave.
I’m consciously deciding to not work, then I get anxious because I’m behind and end up performing just average or underperforming. What is wrong with me?!
Been considering getting checked for ADHD but I’ve had adderall before and noticed it makes me really agitated. I already have anxiety and bad mood swings from time to time.im worried it’ll get worse
I’ve never had really close friends, and the friends I have made over the years don’t ever get to know the real me. It sucks feeling like I have to hide my interests behind a facade or fear judgment
Short term tools and tips for bouts of anxious feelings?
Meditation isn’t my thing, and while therapy is a great option long term, just looking for something to help manage this weekend since it will be particularly stressful.
Depression and anxiety were affecting my job and so I told my counselor and HR lead. I took a leave of absence (short term disability). I returned and was laid off due to “no path forward” not due to performance. I generally have good performance reviews though only an average performance on my last project. Can I sue for wrongful termination due to the firm’s treatment of my disability?
I just can’t continue justifying paying my therapist $100+ every week, but I want to keep being in therapy.
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