One thing I could never understand about women who have not been sufficiently educated and do not work who are married in India is what happens to them and their children if their husbands are abusive monsters and their own relatives have already passed on? What are the vehicles for relief?

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if in US, court system and legally mandated support. a few ngos that can help deal with the situation. if in india, some ngo's but not a lot of other vehicles

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But then why do women aspire to that deal?

Even in the US the court can issue a judgement but they cannot force payment without the person issuing the complaint spending a lot of legal fees. If he has a more expensive lawyer she likely loses as well.

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