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Out sick one day and worked from home. Come in the next day and male client asks me in front of the entire team “are you pregnant?” (I’m not) 😐 is this very inappropriate or am I overreacting?

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It’s always inappropriate to ask someone if they’re pregnant. Sorry, OP.

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@DD1 I think it makes sense to tell him in person first that it is inappropriate if it’s first offense

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Thanks everyone, I thought so, and called him out as being incredibly offensive and inappropriate when it happened... but dang what is wrong with people! Also found out today he has done this to one of his female colleagues before so it’s not the first time 😠

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Inappropriate, for sure

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Omg wtf. So inappropriate!! 😤😤

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Completely inappropriate! I’d report it

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Ew. Inappropriate

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Wholly inappropriate and I would have informed him on the spot. What a clown.

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Waaaay inappropriate!

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I would still give HR a heads up. That is inexcusable.

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He’s a full grown adult, not a child. Teachable moments are for children.

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1000% inappropriate. If something like that happens again, report to HR

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Go to Hr

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Inappropriate. Report.

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Ftw

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So inappropriate.. they would never ask a man if he and his wife/gf/partner are pregnant if he took a day off and worked from home 😳

How would he have reacted if you replied “Still Gay?"

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