Part of mass layoffs and been looking for work for almost 5 months now

A bit annoyed and am considering moving back home with the parents and continue the job hunt

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I did that once when I was younger. I moved to nyc then moved back in with my parents for 3-4 months. I was embarrassed and depressed about it and felt it was such a huge deal at the time. I couldn’t find a job. Looking back.. I wish I wouldn’t have put so much pressure on myself. It really wasn’t that big of deal, I just made it out to be. And it was so short term if you look at the big picture. What’s the worst that can come from it? Take the help and don’t stress about it. It’s not personal, it’s just hard for most people to find a job. It was actually nice having some bonding time with my parents.

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Thanks for that

Yeah I've done it in the past and honestly thought I was secure enough now to stay where I am and job hunt

Just disappointed in a way that I may have to go through this again. Sadly the job market where my parents live is even smaller as well

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