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IMO butterflies are overrated. Also arranged marriages are underrated. One obviously shouldn't just blindly marry any person their parents suggest, but if it is handled like normal dating (just that source are your parents) it can actually be a good way of meeting people because the intent is clear from the start.
I met my now husband through the arranged marriage setup. We courted for about 6 months before getting engaged. Trust me there don't have to be any butterflies the first time around, if the person is right, the feelings will grow and you will build something solid. Most guys with whom I got butterflies turned out to be morons 😅 It was only initial attraction. Play the long game sister! Good luck!
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Hey @Amazon, are you using any matrimonial apps for marriage dates? I am M 28, and have been using JS but it didn't seem to work much in my favour. The profile that I like do not respond and the interests that I receive are not as per my likings.
I am in no hurry, and I know these things take time but it feels stuck.
Forget butterflies, there not even houseflies in my case😅
Any suggestions for me please?
And most of them are already taken 🥲
You people are getting dates?
Yep..both seedless and not so less
I got married at 36.
It was an arranged marriage.
I had nothing going for me. Parents passed away, salary was around 4 lakh ctc, I was suffering from long term spondylitis.
One thing I was adamant about. I wanted to talk to the girl at a public place outside family pressure.
Met someone through matrimony ad, went to talk to her.
We talked for 3.5 hours. Most I have talked to a woman outside my mother.
She married me. 8 years later, she still lights up whenever she sees me. When I am away from home, the only thing I think about going home to her.
Butterflies are overrated. Marry someone you can talk to or seat in silence with.
Best of luck
In my case, i fell in true love 7 times, dated 4 of them; fell truly madly deeply in love once after these (I realize this in hindsight) - and the girl left me (families fought and she decided not to pursue). Reluctantly, got arranged married to a girl my parents reallyyyyy wanted me to get married to because of kundali and all (i never really wanted to pursue this arrangement as i did not like the girl much). Fortunately for me, we did not have much conversation during courtship period as my consulting job was giving me a working tour of Europe!
On day of marriage, i saw her excited face and thought for first time of giving my marriage a sincere try; and for the first time she also seemed to reciprocate back. Now we've got a hyperactive 4yr old son and we're living happily ever after🙂
Crux of the story is that we all come with baggage. Nobody will ever be perfect match for you, you will need to keep improvising.
On how to select a partner - Good litmus test is to go on a back to back movie and dinner date with the person. If you're able to be with a person for that long a time without being awkward and actually enjoying, you can think about moving ahead with them. Butterflies take some time to develop after you turn 30 as you've been through the same song and dance many times before!
Thank you so much for this story. It really means so much to me for you to pen down your honest opinions. I would definitely try the litmus test as suggested :)
“Date/s lined up”??
What are you? Lmaooo ffs🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am what they call a woman, there now it would make more sense🤣🤣
🤯 oh that's where the assumption went wrong!
All the best dealing with the multiple requests you would be getting!! Keep us posted😬
Well, I found my partner over Tinder. It doesn’t matter where, how, and under what circumstances you meet the person, if it clicks then it clicks!
Is it possible to get a date ? Man pls share strategy
Yeh sab moh mayaa hai🥹
The thing is i am new to this charades but since i don't want an arrange marriage this is my best shot🤣
I wanna roll my eyes so hard at all these people who thinks otherwise😂
No butterflies then better to wait for the right person age is just a number don't rush into commitment it's your life end of the day.
Thanks dude..i think i got the picture now..all you folks have been super helpful 🌟
don't use Shaadi.com they are jus breeding fraudsters
Which one do you suggest?
Don't think it's the cuteness that gives one butterflies, (at least in my case) if the prospective partner has interests aligned with mine or is an overall fun person to hang with, I get spellbound and start behaving like a preteen talking to his crush 😅
That's the point, to find the one aligned with our interests :) Teen was a very confusing phase , in don't going back but i think i get what you mean :)
Every site is a dating site if you are brave enough, let’s meet and date and produce two Amazonian kids.
And break down your walls 😂😂 I got a 6'o clock call😛
M29 here, I too had a tingling feeling before meeting up but then realised it had something to do with food poisoning. Universe do give you sign but not butterflies anymore :D it’s NORMAL! Cheers!
I am so glad I ain't the only one out there..Thanks you :)
All speaking in god's language
That's because all are speaking the language of love🤣🤣🤣🤣
You have no previous relationships? Wth
You are welcome! Stay True and blessed!
Okay.. Thank you for your thoughts
So are you saying your experiment days are over? 🤡
It just started from last week.so wish me luck and patience😂
Butterflies are after the first few dates when you click...it's anxiety as of now...As of now..Be a good listener...ask more about her and show genuine interest...and keep your phone in DND during date.
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