People from this bowl keep messaging me and asking questions where they obviously know the answer, like "are you a counsel?" Lol. Since a lot of people are trying to meet people online I figured it might be helpful for people to share good icebreakers or questions they use to get to know someone. What questions do you like to ask your matches or someone you're trying to get to know?

What should be the CTC at fidelity international for role of automation testing having 5+ years of experience and how is the appraisal?

How much does a new Physical therapist assistant grad can make in florida? SNF vs outpatient vs acute care?

How is Salesforce consulting firm " 360 degree cloud technologies " in terms of work life balance and work culture??

I was wondering what’s the usual pay rise one gets with a promotion as an underwriter. I am an associate underwriter due to get promoted to underwriter 1

Girl Scouts has brought me to my last interview stage for Community Engagement Manger. What should I ask for? I have over 5 years of experience and I am also a military veteran and served 7 years.

Hello fishes, Do you have suggestions on Diversity & Inclusion activities that can be done virtually with a group? I found few ideas in google but would love to hear about any experiences and suggestions.

Kicking off travel - anyone done any recent research on best reward cards / program etc?

Anyone here hop to Deloitte IT audit from another B4? How was the culture change?

I live alone. Being a virtual teacher has been hard and somewhat depressing. How do I combat it?

Almost 4 weeks in and my status is still wrong. It was correct for the first ~1 day and then bumped down a level. Shouldn’t be hard as all my nights last year were SPG. This is ridiculous.

Let’s see Paul Allen’s card.

Just moved, and ooking for Pilates studio recommendations in DC, I’m based in Navy Yard but will to go into downtown if needs be.

Anyone watch Indian Matchmaking on Netflix? I actually kinda liked it lol

I am so tired of Deloitte allowing bias towards MDs. Only because you are not an equity partner, your voice is automatically muted, you can contribute but you don’t get to decide. The minute a senior manager gets promoted to a principal, he gets on top of an MD with 15+ years experience and treats you like he is your boss. I mean this is a cast system at its best! I can’t wait to leave this firm, COVID can’t end fast enough.

Female here. Had a very successful first date recently - several hours long, interesting conversation, great chemistry. I felt a special connection and thought it was mutual. It’s been a long while since I’ve been excited about anyone and thanks to corona, it’s been a while since I’ve been in male company period, so I really want to accelerate things (see each other again soon) and not play it slow. He declined my offer to meet up today and didn’t seize the opportunity to make alternate plans.

35M here - any F interested to chat? Please DM

Question time! Two part. 1) What dating sites or apps are you on and 2) do you feel like it’s been particularly tough dating in your 30s/40s during COVID, assuming that we probably date (on average) more seriously than 20s peeps? I personally have only been on one date! A zoom one last week.

Any F in Vegas the coming week attending blackhat/ defco? Wanna grab a drink or a bite and connect? M 36 here and would love to spend an evening in the sin city.. HMU

Turning 30 tomorrow! Looking forward to a better decade.

Alright, what's a dating/romance positive you've had recently? Let's hear it in the comments. Don't be salty. People need to know that good still exists

Anyone in the ny/nj area down to dating…serious enquirer only …38M here

Still struggling a bit w breakup from early December. I posted earlier abt the guy who wanted me to dress femmy/sexy and ignored my issues. 3 months. I made a list of the top 5 reasons it wasn't working out for me and still I'm second guessing myself. I did break up by phone and felt good about it. I clearly told him the reasons. He called back abt hour later and ended up yelling at me about Jackie O and Audrey Hepburn's style and saying he wouldn't call again. Cont'

I miss the 90s

SF 47, been texting guy (49) for a week, plan to meet tomorrow. The texting is getting too much, good morning and good night texts. I consider anyone from an app a stranger until meeting in person. Over the course of weekend, he's sent 3 YouTube songs with "love" in the title (Etta James). I am feeling more and more uncomfortable. He's coming off as needy or desperate, huge turnoff for me. I have slowed my response rate. How to deal with this?

40M. Anyone in Boston?

At 30, if you’re living under your parent’s roof but you’re supporting them, do you consider them to be living with you? Or are you still telling others that you live with them?

Any F in Minnesota?

Why are my 35+ single ladies doing on this Friday evening?

34/M here. Had an uncontested dissolution in October, shortly after began dating someone I’d met a couple months earlier. She’s 35/F - I think she’s absolutely fantastic and we’re a wonderful fit. Asked her to move into my apartment with me last week - she’s in agreement but others have told me to “take it slow.” What do you think, am I moving too fast?

Any divorcee or single mom 🐠 here? I am separated, and it’s just been hard dating the other cohort. Looking for someone who understands what I have been through. 35 M here

I matched with a guy and we initially agreed to meet for the first time this coming Friday. Last Wed, he sent two messages on the app with suggestions but I wasn’t able to text back until Sat because I was traveling. He unmatched me. Am I in the wrong here? How often do you text people in the talking stage? (F in early 30s here)

Guy took me out for dinner and given how things have been over past year, we both knew we are going to end up being intimate for the first time. He brought his clothes , shoes, other stuff for next morning but no protection. He didn’t even ask me if I had protection. Why would a grown man do this?

I am planning to visit Philly on weekend of 4/16, any F wants to show me around ? I am into food, drinks and historic sites. 33 M