Posting for anyone who may be just “looking at this page” or “sick and tired of being sick and tired”. I found a life through sobriety. It may not be perfect but I no longer HAVE to drink. I never thought it was possible. I wanted to state here that it is. It gets easier as time goes but if you’re fed up know that for many years I HAD to drink. I could not function without it. 24 hours was a miracle to me. If you’re like me you’re reading this and thinking “Bullshit!”. Just try 24 at a time.

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Right on! You don’t have to devote and waste time, money and energy to putting a substance in you that will only detract from your life. 8 months ago I never would have believed these words could be spoken by me. I didn’t even know how sick and tired I was. But there IS another way to live that is much more fulfilling. I wish that everyone may live their best life.

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Agree 1000% Life is 1000% better without alcohol. I never would have believed it until I gave living an alcohol free life a try. ❤️

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