Pros and cons of disclosing your new firm when you give notice? Should I tell them when they inevitably ask? Love my current firm (am law 100) but going to a top 10.

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When I lateraled my old firm tried to poach an attorney from the group I was joining in retaliation lol.

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It's fine. They'll figure it out eventually.

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100%. Weird not to disclose imho.

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It’s weird not to, but there was one instance where I genuinely felt uncomfortable telling them. When they asked, I just smiled and said, “I’ll send out my new contact information when I get it!” (I had less than NO intention of helping them contact me!)

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I’ve seen people do both. It feels a bit weird when people refuse to disclose. We’ll figure it out soon enough, but I understand why someone may want to keep it quiet until they officially start.

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