PSA: Ask your vendors if they’re vaccinated if your venue requires it. My small wedding is tomorrow and I just found out the photographer isn’t vaccinated and our venue requires it 😑

My SM made a joke about going to a strip club to me while in the client office. It made me feel pretty uncomfortable but not sure if it’s something to bring up to the partner. Thoughts?

Moms, what do you do with your children‘s creative output? I.e. pictures they have drawn, arts and crafts projects, etc.? I find it hard to throw things away and am keeping too many things. With 4 children, this is a problem (mess). What‘s your policy? E.g. do you keep things for a month and then decide what to keep and what to throw away? Do you discuss with them or just quietly let things disappear?

Is anyone just tired of working in general? I’m so tired of working. How do people do this for 65 years?????

Is there an app where I can see all of my money? Connecting bank, wealthsimple trade, wealthsimple cash, anything else... ?

Parents returned to home country after spending 6 months in US and are now planning to come back to US after a 3 month interval. Will they have any issues entering US given the less-than-usual gap between stays?

Anyone wanna network at gunnison this summer? 🍆⚖️

Any interesting stocks out there folks are watching? Have 5-7k in an investing account I'm looking to deploy. Ideally short to mid horizon.

What's the job market like currently for ui react developer 11 yoe? I put down paper without an offer need to start looking.

Hi all,
Please help me understand if I should accept this position or not?
I was working as a regular staff therapist for 2 years at an assisted living when just 2 weeks back the HR approached me with an offer to work at a newly opened senior living, so basically I will helping them set up that location from scratch, open it and get it running. For doing all this they have not even clearly offered me a promotion, raise or a change in position. What should I do?

Please help🙏🏻

Anyone gone through AOS recently that would be able to post timeline from the point you sent in you i-485, biometrics, etc to getting approved? How long did it take

Looking to lose weight and get back into shape after a pretty tough lockdown and strain on my family. Finally looking forward to a positive spring. Does anyone have programs or trainers they recommend? Or what works for you, building out this area of your life? Thanks

Will I be screwed by the time I’m middle aged if I choose to never advance in titles?

Hello all, for those working in an agency. I wanted to see what your typical client workload is? I’ve been in my role for about a year but the workload has changed dramatically without hiring help.

Can you please share:
- the number of accounts you manage
- how many support staff you have on those accounts
- how many active pitches you send per month for those clients on average

Thanks all!

rotated off a pretty rough project. Working remote for the next couple months, wanting to get back into working out. Anyone have recs for a HIIT gym? Closest is OrangeTheory brookhaven. M/26

Does anyone work for BCG? What is your experience (Boston Consulting Group)

Calling all ID Associates: Do you expect a cost of living raise from one year to the next? My mid-size ID firm did not give any associate raises for 2021-2022 and a wave of associates quit in response. I’m anxious 2023 will be no different. What’s the expectation?

If you are changing your name, are you using hitch switch or anything similar? Why or why not?

What do the guests care about/appreciate the most? Assume guests of all age. Free drinks and good food?

Looking for an outfit to wear to my engagement photo shoot. Want something under $200 and summery, but no ideas beyond that. Any dress recommendations?

Reccos on a vendor or shop for customized bathrobes for the mamas and my grandmother for getting ready?

Are you all having day-after breakfasts? What are you doing? Who is hosting? My future in laws just offered to host a breakfast for us, which hadn’t really been on my radar. What is typical? Who traditionally hosts? If it helps, my parents are throwing the wedding and in-laws rehearsal dinner. We don’t really have out of town guests.

My husband and I eloped but are planning our formal wedding in Spring 2023 - this was the right choice for us for many reasons that I don’t need to detail haha. Anyway, we just found a great deal for our dream honeymoon, but the catch is that the trip would be this fall.

Would it be insane for us to do our honeymoon before our formal wedding but after our elopement? We would still do something smaller after the wedding next year!

Wedding registry question... My fiancé & I are in our mid 30s & already have most of what we need in terms of household items, glassware, etc. We want to be mindful of our guests' wide budget ranges, perhaps pick a few charities that are close to home in lieu of gifts. TBH, we have much more use for cash vs. things, but feel icky asking for it. Anyone on here in a similar situation & how are you navigating?

Anyone else oscillate between getting annoyed with the big crazy weddings on Instagram and also feel a twinge of jealousy? I should probably block/unfollow all those accounts, but its hard not to check

Any recommendations for websites to purchase classy looking bridal jewelry (necklace/earrings)? Looking for something silver with pearls.

How can I delay my period?😫 I am not on BC pills and I do not wish to be on it. What can I do to delay it?

Anyone with an emerald engagement ring care to share where they got it and pics? Thanks! 😊

My partner and I are in our late 30s and planning on a small courthouse wedding in 2022. Most of our friends (with kids) want us to have a vegas style joint bachelor/bachelorette party. We'd rather just want to go to Vegas alone for a weekend. How common is it to skip the bachelor/bachelorette parties?

Where are people are going on their honeymoon? How much are you spending?

Any second time brides? What are you doing the same/different this time?

Is there a wedding dress sale season? A friend of mine said most dresses get cleared out by end of the year. Is Black Friday a thing for wedding dresses?

Recs for shapewear? Getting cups sewn into the top so mainly worried about sucking in / smoothing my stomach as much as possible while still being comfortable.

Putting the seating chart together is by far the worst part of this whole thing. I hate everyone and their fucking drama

How much would you spend on a bridal shower gift for your fiancés cousin? She’s getting a married a month after us this fall so I was tempted to just see what they gift us at my shower and wedding and do the same range back to play it safe, but I don’t want to end up with the leftover duds on the registry if I wait too long

Curious if anyone has tips on negotiating with a venue?

We toured a new venue (just starting booking in August) and really love it. They said in their initial email that they were running a booking special discount for October 2022 but then later clarified that it was a mistake. We’re now a little weary of working with them and don’t feel comfortable paying the same price for a new venue with no reviews as some established ones we’ve seen. Planning to try to negotiate on price before deciding

SOS one of my friends is having a destination wedding and asked me to be the maid of honor. Today she sends me the details and it’s in the middle of a national park (3 hrs from nearest airport so have to rent a car), the hotel is minimum 700/night (no other options nearby), plus I’ll be flying across the country to go to this in the first place ($700 flight).Looking at dropping ~4K+ for this seems crazy to me, but what do I tell her? I’m 25 so barely have any money as is.

WWYD?!