Question for the mid-30s M fish, how useful do you find the dating apps like Hinge and Bumble? Do you even match or engage with mid/late 20s women on the apps?

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I think the bigger question here is why do you want to date someone nearly 10 years younger than you? If you're just looking to hook up, then I would just state that in the app and be less worried about her age.

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Yeah. I do this in my profile as well. I'm fine with a 10-year gap so letting them know this will make the search easier.

You’re fine — get on em. Just make sure to not let them take over like a second job or kid in a candy store

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Not sure what the question is here. Are you worried you won’t match with younger women?

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How old are you exactly and why is meeting someone younger such a concern?

For context, I’m 6’2, fit, decent looking and work in consulting but just apprehensive about being back on the apps after a long relationship

I’m 35. And it is less about only meeting younger women and more about how limited I am going to be in my options (so if I could only realistically expect to go out with women over 30). But sounds like I am over thinking it and that’s not a real issue haha

If you took it that way then maybe I hit a nerve. I wasn’t trying to call you out just think you’re wanting to date younger based on the info you provided in your original post. Nothing wrong w it but you should know what you want it’ll make your life easier and that of the ones you end up dating too.

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