Rant: my boyfriend is so annoying with this diet! I GET IT. You want to eat healthy! But when you have your friends at our place every other weekend they order pizza and you devour most of 2 boxes! But when I want pizza or wings or burgers I have to hear a whole spiel. “Can we pick something healthier?” “You can order ___ but can I choose something else on the menu?” “I don’t knowwww” like MY GOD. Then if I order something for me he wants half or bites! Sick of it!!!

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Maybe he is framing the “let’s be healthy and go on a diet” as a nice way instead of saying “I want you to be healthier and lose weight”. Just a thought, why would he devour pizzas w friends but not w you

OP, this is super tricky. Dieting can quickly spiral into an eating disorder (it did for me), and it’s very difficult to talk to someone who is in the middle of it. The way he is losing weight is likely not sustainable and he will probably gain it back. I would try to bring up his bingeing to him and maybe suggest that it’s not something to be ashamed of, but might be in response to his strict diet otherwise. Suggest maybe being a little more flexible with his diet. For yourself, I would look into intuitive eating and try to work that into your approach with him whenever the opportunity pops up.

No sex if he steals your food! That'll show him!

(Just kidding. Please don't do that.)

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