Rant warning - I think it's all this Rona situation getting to me, but I am just sick and tired of everything. I am always trying to be responsible, think about everyone else, not be selfish tbc

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But it's just beyond me when people can't do the same. If I wanted to do everything my way, things would look very different. I feel like I just need to do that now and not think about everyone else. I have kind of had it. Sorry. End rant.

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Wow you literally wrote what I have been feeling this entire time. Thanks 😘

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I feel this. 👊🏼

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