Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?
I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.
He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?
OP - male here, sorry but he’s no longer *that* interested in you. If he was , you would know it.
Remember if he wanted to, he would.
Don’t settle queen!!
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Damn… that’s a very good goodbye
Rising Star
If you’re not getting responses to multiple texts, for your own sake, stop texting.
If he wants to talk to you, he will. And if he doesn’t, he won’t. Your continuous texting will not change that. And quite frankly, it probably makes him less likely to respond.
You have got to find a way to stop yourself. Delete his number if you have to.
Don't resist the emotion, its just a feeling created by the mind. Sit with it... feel it... and watch it disappear. It takes longer for others to master the art of radical acceptance and letting go... without having to do anything.
It won't be as easy as the snap of a finger, but its the best way to get over ANYTHING... Allowing it.
First of all, hugs to you - I’ve been there and it’s never fun. For me when this happens, it’s usually not tied to the guy himself - it’s more likely that I’m unhappy in some area of my life, and the connection was a fun distraction/fuel to dream about the “what if.” I’m not the type to cling, so when I do it’s mostly about what the guy might represent rather than the guy himself (if that makes sense.) Cuffing season makes this infinitely worse lol.
Best way I’ve found to shake it is to pour into myself in other ways - invest in a hobby, hang out with friends, hit the gym, etc.
It’s hard, but the reality is multi-texting him won’t make him like you more - and often quite the opposite. You deserve someone who is excited to talk to you - if it’s not him, just means there’s someone amazing waiting for you. 😊
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Thank you
Same thing happened to me recently, and I never get attached to guys. no advice just feel you 😭
Conversation Starter
Same boat 😅🥲
What are the driving factors that are making you clingy
A1 sounds like a different setup? OP is talking about someone she is seeing, and the way I read it they are not officially a couple yet. Still, im sorry you went through that 😌
Rising Star
Uhh that’s what you’re supposed to do when you like someone?
Pro
See if they like you as much.
Don’t cling