Really feeling down. I’ve been struggling with multiple health issues that keep trying my patience. My boyfriend isn’t even being supportive. His reaction is you can reach out if you need me, you know where I am. I don’t even know what to say. If anything I need support now more than ever because my days are so hard lately and all I’ve been doing is crying and he doesn’t even care

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Hi OP, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Have you tried expressing yourself or letting him know of your specific needs? I'm a husband whose wife has had PTSD and other health issues for several years, and initially I had a really difficult time even understanding how to be supportive of her (e.g. does she want me to listen? To solution? To hug her? To give her space? Etc.).

Most men can be obtuse to understanding how to best support their partners feeling low, so communicating your specific needs might be a good starting point if you haven't already.

Honestly at first my wife probably thought I was either useless, didn't care, or made things worse, but we've tried working through it together and both have learned (and are learning) in the process. Silver lining might be it'll put your bf through a good test run. 😂

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