Really need to work on my confidence when it comes to dating. Problem is I’m a quiet guy/a little shy.

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I love the unassuming guys. I find the connections more genuine.

What ever interests you have, I would start there. If it's sports, go on sports forums. If it's Comicon, well, start there. It's the easiest way to start dating.

I have a coworker who's always trying to talk to me about sports and I literally have no clue about it, but I listen and try to engage, because well I like him. He also mentioned it sucks that girls don't hit on him (and he's very attractive, just quiet) and I'm taking all the hints I can and will run with it.

You'll find someone who will try and learn about the things that interest you, you'll know she's a keeper.

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Yes, just go on a few practice dates with no expectations. Even if you expect to bomb the dates, the more you go on the more confidence you’ll get.

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Check out dating coaches

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How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? I think it comes with time for sure, and the right dates can bring it out in you as well.

Best of luck😊😘

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