Really struggling to get over a guy who didn’t want to come out to be with me. I’m constantly thinking about him, and can’t sleep at night. Any advice on how to get over this?

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You get under someone else.

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I volunteer as tribute!

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Just give it some time. And it does help to be social and even hook-up and such.

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Guuuurl, get over one man, get under another one 💁🏻‍♂️ bish I ain’t even going to charge you for this therapy session. On the house

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I had this happen to me and I think I struggled with it too. Listening to music helped me go to sleep every night but I still think about him and get upset 9 months later 🤷🏽‍♂️

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Humor helps, I guess

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Sleeping pills

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No

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Reading helps clear the mind and sleep better - though try to read a real book rather an an e-book, ideally fiction to get your mind off reality.

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“...didn’t want to come out to be with me” this is strange wording; I’m parsing this as, “didn’t want to come out of the closet to be with me” is this the case?

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Yes

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