Recently arrived to visit my aging (mid 60’s) mother. The last time was a year ago. For the last several years each time I visit there are visible cob webs all over the ceilings and walls throughout most of the house. I try to address it as an issue that needs more attention but get laughed at and gaslit. Her mental stability is quite concerning. The house is falling a part too with many repairs needed and unaddressed.

Thoughts on how to handle?

I am a cashier and I was under the impression that we were still required to wear masks on a federal level. Is this not true?

Question - Trying to see what end of spectrum I am in based on my age and profession(consultant) .

1. Years of Marriage and age
2. Number of times you make out with your significant other per week
3. Did Covid increase or decrease your weekly frequency

How do you envision gyms opening as part of phase 2? Going to be very difficult to add in restrictions and guidelines in my opinion. Should go for an all or nothing approach and not even think about placing restrictions on my hot yoga class.

On my way to my third session with my new therapist. I think after this one is when I’ll decide if I’m going to move forward with her.

Anyone else have trouble finding the right fit?

Hello friends,

My spouse is looking for a change in manual testing.She is looking for work from home (wfh)opportunities. Actually we have a 3.5yr old ,nursery class going kid. I sometimes feel very bad whenever he returns from school and misses his mumma lot.
After marriage and pregnancy, she already had a career gap. If again going to take a gap that might be a career problem.
The solution we are looking for WFH opportunity where she can manage her motherhood loves as well as professional lfy

Anyone had luck finding a good therapist who actually understands ADHD? Getting advice like "try taking a walk every day" and "practice these breathing exercises" is driving me crazy. I need actual solutions and shit, not just platitudes and internet worksheets.

People with SOs, have the past few months been overall positive or negative for your relationship? How so?

This is early considering it’s months away, but I am struggling with depression/anxiety. I’m not popular and not friends w the other 15 SAs from my school and i dreading the social events. Any advice?

Guys focus on your physical.. mental and spiritual health …do not over work and affect your health .. health is the real wealth !!!

Looking to make new friends. Anyone want to meet up? Hard to make friends when you work a lot.

What have you guys used your quality of life reimbursement for?

Almost 20-23 days NoFap. Night fall twice in 3 days. Is this usual?

If you’re a person in this group managing people, ask yourself, am I a person that inspires my team, or will I be the reason someone experiences trauma for the rest of their lives. I will share the story of my sister in IT. At the start of her career she worked under an Indian boss in Northumbria University who was racist to her. He exaggerated mistakes and spoke in a demeaning manner at every opportunity. He was nicer to other Indians and whites but treated my sister in this nasty....

I’m feeling guilty and disappointed in myself for not getting fitter during the lockdown. I feel like I’ve wasted 2 months. Any one else feel like this? Any tips to start this journey? I’m drowning in my sorrows

This may be a long shot but recommendations for male therapists/counselors that take MetroPlus Health Plan insurance in Manhattan (close to/accessible from UES)? Or someone out of network &affordable?

Folks, anybody joined wipro through a conversion from vendor payroll?how does contract to hire work in wipro?my wife works for wipro, but on 3rd party payroll. She was told by wipro manager that even if her parent company doesnt agree, wipro has the clause to automatically convert contractors into permanent hires. Whats the procedure?pls throw light here

My eyesight is getting worse and it’s lowkey stressing me out lol. On that note, do you know what the cheapest way to get contact lenses is?!

Need advice! Context: Make 160k in LCOL area, 28M. Living at home with no rent and paid off car for last 3 years. Monthly expenses add up to 1500, invest/save about 8K a month. At a point where I’d like to move out, I’ve been living at home because it’s mutually beneficial to my elderly parents and me. We get along really well and I help them, they help me. My car with 180k miles recently broke down. I would like to move out and also finally buy a nicer car.

I feel like I wrote manifestos constantly in school & now I’m writing my first one for a actual client and I just don’t get why I’m doing it.

Hi all , we are moving out of our 2 bed 2 bath apartment and is looking for someone to take over our lease. The apartment is in a high rise and has all amenities - indoor pool , gym, spa, in unit laundry etc. it is a 7 min walk to center city , has a balcony, city view , south facing so lots of sun. If anyone is interested please DM me for more details

Can anyone describe the overall competitive landscape of strategy consulting firms in SEA region?

Recommendations for Iceland for a week in early October? Ring road it or stay in Reykjavik and day trip it around southern part of country?

How much to expect from Accenture for a role of Automation Test Engineer?
YOE: 4.2
Current: 11.9

Best places to grab a drink outdoors on a sunny day?

Is 10 lpa less for 2 yoe in citi?

Need 11 likes to dm. Please help here. Thanks in advance :)

Hi fishes, I'm a full-stack javascript developer with 2.9 years experience looking for a change. If there's any opportunities please refer me

Best career advice?

I am a junior associate in a V20 firm planning to lateral. What are the pros and cons of working with a recruiter? Would the payment to the recruiter be a hindrance for the firms under the current market?

Our rent increased from 3.3 to 4.4K and trying to figure out if we should resign. Currently in a 1 bedroom luxury in Hudson yard with W/D and a great view - we can afford to stay but need help figure out if it’s a good financial decision. HHI of 250k base. Any advice is welcome!

Advice for how to find work/life balance?

Any MSL’s here? I’m a hospital pharmacist looking to move to an MSL role. Any guidance on transitioning from a clinical role to MSL would be appreciated. What’s your day to day like, do you enjoy it, etc

What hotel Sap labs banglore provides for relocation 15days accommodation?

What were some challenges y’all faced this week?

I’ll start. Trying to get non local resources utilized. National Leadership thinks this is the answer to our problems but local leadership is hesitant.

I have 5 YOE in Analytics... always thought I wanted to be a DS, but every job (even the junior ones) required experience in ML development. Though I am part of the ML project, I'm not the person develop the model. And I have a hard time when the interviewer ask about how I develop the model and what hyperparameters I tuned. I know the thought process and stuff but 'I' wasn't the one who did that part in the project. How to convince them that I could do the job without taking credit of others.

Our annual reviews are approaching & one of my direct reports has been with us for almost six years w/ little growth. My reco was to let him go & find a stronger, hungrier & more motivated designer at the same level. However, my boss instead wants us to promote him in hopes that will spark some motivation. I am not behind this decision & have voiced my multitude of concerns in promoting an employee who doesn't deserve it. HR is behind the decision! Thoughts on promoting an undeserving report?

Was on a call hungover and high today negotiating a $1.5M contract 😬

Stress really does trickle down .. my manager is getting annoying 🙄 and now I’m getting stressed 🙄

I’m 39 and not sure if it’s because I’m getting old, bc of COVID or because we had a baby a few months back but I don’t feel much about the new year. Not depressed - personally we had a fantastic 2021 and all is good (although very busy with a 5 month old). Usually enjoy flipping through the NYE parties shows on networks but they kinda suck and not feeling the hype. Anyone else feel the same?

How do I open a wine bottle?

Accidentally got too high. AMA

Finished on a Friday evening, waiting for post work drinks. Not a thing in my team, apparently. Sucks.

Recruiters and woman are good at ghosting and boasting. Is that why they rule the recruiting?

Hi all I need to vent. I’ve recently moved into a new apartment and from the beginning it was a nightmare (place wasn’t properly cleaned, person upstairs is ridiculously loud) I’m paying more than the average rent for the area (almost $3k after paying for parking and other fees) where average rent in this area is like 1800-2000 max. It’s supposed to be a nicer building and just have been so unhappy. Today though was my final straw. My $700 package was missing from (continued in the comments)

I lie about how many plastic bags I’m using at the self checkout.

This guy I went out with has such amazing porcelain glowing skin. I was staring at his skin the whole time 🥵

I never really had eczema until the last couple years. Just got back from vacation and I’m having the worst flare ups right now that I’ve ever had and have client/team meetings coming up. I’m not sure what triggered it. It’s mostly on the neck and the inner arm/elbow areas. Any recommendations for quick treatment?