Recently ended a 3+ yr relationship (were both mid 20s and living together for just under 2 years) bc of him buying an engagement ring yet not proposing and waffling about our future. After 2 weeks I brought up that there’s a lot of good in us that maybe worth trying to work on (counseling etc). He wants space first and asked me to not wait for him as he sorts out his emotions and “tries to be happy again” (COVID depression and 100hr work weeks). Then he’ll decide if he wants to try again

How do you and your significant other split expenses such as rent and eating at restaurants? We are in our late 20s, not married, she works in tech and makes ~$150k while I am an Associate making ~$400k. We split our $4500 rent based on income so I pay 70% rent and I pay for all meals at restaurants (we eat out ~4 meals per week lunch or dinner). Interested in hearing how you all split these expenses and how your income splits between your partner

33 and still don’t think I want kids. Does that every change?

How long are people being positive with covid for?? I know some people that are symptom free for over 2-3 weeks but still coming back positive?? How is this possible?? Are they contagious? Most jobs suggest if your symptoms free for 10 days then you can go back to work...yet some of these people are still testing positive. Thoughts???

I just had dinner with some old friends and they are about to retire early. Part of their plan is to downsize their home, get a small condo and travel for 9-10 months a year. Does this seem crazy? I just can’t imagine it. I guess they figured the cost would be about the same but wouldn’t you miss the relationships. Wouldn’t your kids feel lost without having a sense of home? Anyone thought about this?

I was going to order my next round of Desi groceries, and my eyes came on this item - Dabaar Chawanprash.

Is this thing actually going to increase my immunity, and save from covid, or it's a marketi

Has anyone made the transition from law to public accounting or tax in industry? Are you happier? I’ve been thinking about making such a move since there seems to be more remote opportunities in accounting. Advice or talk me off the ledge?
(My background: Big 4 SALT > State AG’s office (tax) > small commercial lit firm > COVID > city attorney > in-house (real estate))

Hey fishes
I am looking for a remote/Work from home jobs. I have done Mechanical engineering and have experience of 4 years. I know design tools and have experience in manufacturing.
I have completed C1 advance level in German language.
Since I lost my mother in COVID last year, I have been searching for work.
I can also travel anytime if it will be required.
Please let me know if anyone has any opportunity maybe of other stream also, I am open to discuss.
Thanks in advance.

After a hard reset on travel points (got none after Covid and change to industry) how would you start over? Which credit card is best for travel points? Airline? Starwood or Bonvoy? Avis or ??

At one time I had status on most airlines and hotels but I never bothered to focus on accumulating points since it seemed like they were infinite and I booked on convenience. Oh have times changed! I even let go of Amex platinum, just wasn’t worth it to me. Base airport LAX/SNA so no airline pref.

Motherhood and medicine- a delicate balance. Sounds like the titile of a book that needs to be written.

Tips for helping kids stay on task during zoom? Our little class (9 kids) has been doing zoom circle times twice a week but I noticed they are really distracted. Also every meeting a kid leave...

Welp, I’m off to the home office while my wife goes and plays D&D with our new group. Sad to miss it, but feeling freaking lucky as F that I have a fun partner. We also kill at Fortnite together 🥵

Never gave up on my hubby when we were dating - just divorcing the firm for the health of our relationship 😂

I’ve 90 min for ELA & 6 kids. I need to teach phonics, curriculum (has 0 phonics), & goals & they need freq. breaks. Admin’s making me use said curric. Any ideas?? Small groups and rotate? TIA!

Moving in 5-6 months..when do I give notice?
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Decided to move out of state after this school year for my kids. I have a good job and a good boss. I don’t want to just drop a two weeks notice because relocating my whole family has obviously taken some time to plan. What’s a good way to be very professional and keep my work relationships in a good note.

I feel mentally stuck / having repeated thoughts about a relationship that ended about 2 mo ago. I’m dating others / being functional and not insecure about that loss etc but I struggle putting it behind me. Looking for some support / tips / kindness?

I just received an email to my personal account intended for someone else with the same name as me from their cousin wanting to reconnect. They said all these amazing things about this other person...

What games, toys, or science kits would you recommend for a kid who’s showing an interest in the sciences?

I was working with a recruiter to relocate to another market before covid and was recently stealthed. Should I share this information with my recruiter?

I thought there was a Top Golf in Wrigley? Did the project get shut down over covid or am I thinking about another chain? Trying to make plans for the bfs bday and can’t find it on Google.

This may be very obvious to some but just asking. If you’re emailing an agency with two ECDs/Joint ECDs, do you email both of them?

Does anyone have advice for a baby lawyer who didn’t go to a rich PWI on fitting in to a corporate team made up of people who went to rich PWI? I’m friendly enough and we get along but I want to build deeper relationships but my coworkers seem to have trouble relating to me as I don’t drink wine and play squash/golf/tennis on the weekend.

Saw one study coming up in Cell that shows COVID infects Type II pneumocytes

Mindfulness / meditation/ yoga retreats in Central America (love to do Bali but not feasible during covid)- any recs? Beginner 35F, open to long weekend or 1-2 weeks.

Hello Fishies,

I am done with all my rounds at S&P Global and shared my documents to HR. No one has asked about my expected salary yet. Is this usual in their process. How much can I ask for an experience of 9 years. How many days does it take to release the offer and what is the slary structure.

Hi Folks.. Anybody here with core Financial services industry work experience and have career switched to IT domain (specifically into RPA)? Thanks

Hello folks , I am having 12+ IT years of experience with last 3 years in RPA tool UiPath. Could you please refer me to any suitable RPA openings ?

Whats the usual yearly hike that people get at UiPath?
Or whats the % range of hike offered at UiPath?

Any PwC senior associates/managers with internal audit background keen to move to New Zealand? I can get you a referral

Have I just had bad luck with the companies I've been at or is it like this everywhere? I've had 7 managers in my 4 years of experience, 3 in one year at my first position (which is why I left) and now 4 at the 2nd company in 3 years. There has been a mix of people leaving and people getting fired but the instability feels extreme.

What’s an HSA and what should I do with the money in it?

Is anyone getting a wine advent calendar this year? I have always wanted to try one but I am not sure which one to get. Any recommendations would be appreciated!

Just curious, what’s BAH paying associates/LAs with a Secret clearance and project management experience these days? (Left Booz a few years back and miss it)

Here is your chance to brag about your latest and greatest achievement at work. I need some positive energy in my life.

Currently paying off student loan at 4.5% interest rate. Any refinancing options for non-citizen (also no PR)?

Hi,

I left CG in June and when I'm trying for PF transfer in unable to because CG has not marked my exit in the UAN portal.

Can you please give the contact of pf team or fnf team to reach out

Thanks

Hi All,

My sister is searching for a job. She is currently working as PMO in Infosys from last 2 years (she has only 2 years experience). Can someone please provide referral for PMO role in Capgemini Pune?

Thanks in advance... 😊

Looking for job opportunities in finance and accounting in Pune location.Immediate joiner.
YOE- 5 years and 7 months
Skills- Accounting Skills, Analytical Skills, financial reporting and management skills

Any female fish willing to give some advice?

When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are not married or living together.

He knows how much I make because I told him after my promotion. He is the entrepreneur type with a passive income gig.

His business has been very slow since covid but he just seem to be chillin at home. He never tells me if he is doing financially okay so when I asked. He got offended and asked me to drop the topic because he is doing okay.

My boyfriend has given soo many red flags over the past year but we’ve been trying to make it work. Heated arguments consistently every other week. We disagree on a lot of “expectations” in a relationship. He can be controlling and quick to get angry, and I just can’t take this emotionally anymore (esp when he blames me for making him angry). Tips on getting through the break up convo when you know it’s the right thing to do but you love them & it hurts like hell to end things?

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

If you have an avoidant attachment style, how did you end up getting into a relationship (that lasted)?

(38F). My boyfriend (39M) after 2 years together (long distance but travel to one another and spend time), suddenly told me he wants to try to be a musician again. He did this in his 20s , failed and started his corporate career at 26. He’s a Senior Manager in Fl but i personally feel is underpaid. He was supposed to move in to my place in September and start living together. I initially told him I would support his music on the side while he pursues his corporate career full time. *Cntd below*

I’m a 28 year old male, living with gf. I think I’ve got covid - very feverish, cough, hot and cold sweats, pains etc. When I get sick I turn into a massive baby - definition of “man flu”. Is this a massive problem for women (ie a big turn off)? Luckily I only get sick once every 2-3 years, but this feels awful and I’m being a massive sook and I can’t help it lol…

With the new legislation that passed yesterday and the massive support from tech companies seemingly everywhere, does this mean that Christian views and beliefs are looked down upon? Are real Christians now to be discriminated against for believing in the sanctity of marriage between man, woman, and God? Just curious about what folks think. (Not hating on anyone-Love for all mankind is what I believe in).

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

I can sacrifice an entire weekend cleaning my house so that wife's friend can spend the week. When I ask for a couple hours to help get the house clean so a house cleaner can effectively clean I'm told that's my prerogative and get no help. Well fuck me for being tired of living in a messy house.

How does one even begin to ask for an open relationship? Currently engaged.

What would be average or realistic to start dating after a break up of a 3yrs relationship? She broke up 6 months ago. Seeing a girl giving mixed signal for 5 months already. Haven’t dated yet..

Why do women get judged for their clothes?

How to get over a girl who’s still always on your mind? Dated for 4 years, broke up beginning of July. One of those situations where you really think it’s “the one”. She has seemingly moved on pretty easily, which just hurts even more. I keep replaying scenarios in my head and wonder if there’s a chance at a future with us together again. 😔

Saw that this guy I’ve been seeing for a couple months was texting this girl about going on a walk... looked her up (obviously) and most of her pics on Instagram are (cont.)

Starting to casually date again and I’m curious to know you alls thoughts on the being too available theory?

Did anyone hate wedding planning? I’m constantly considering cancelling the wedding cuz I honestly can’t believe how much drama it’s causing with all family members.......

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

Had a big fight with my gf last night (we live together), looking for advice. She’s a first gen immigrant and her niece recently returned from their home country. She was staying with her brother in law but he’s been drinking a lot so she felt unsafe. She came to crash at my place which I was fine with for a couple of nights. Yesterday she let me know that her niece needs to stay two weeks. She didn’t rly ask she just told me - which rly pissed me off. Am I wrong for wanting to be consulted?

Fam need advice.. I’m struggling in my rl lately. My gf and I met virtually on social media and have been together for almost a year. Things are great normally, but whenever there comes a bit spark of argument, my gf just turned into someone else, very emotional every time, keeping this it’s all your fault attitude… She tends to go to extremes and often times went too much, e.g., she bent (hurts a lot atm but fingers ok) my fingers as part of couple fun fights (it started with her pinching me)…