Recently read about this Singaporean male OF star who was arrested for posting explicit contents on his OF. I saw his recent YouTube video of him sharing personal stories, why he got into OF and how this incident is impacting as a human. He’s a good looking man and seems very genuine on some of his other vlogs and I’m starting to feel really sympathetic and affectionate of him. Didn’t expect this kind of emotion but seeing an OF star as a human gives me very new perspectives

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Not sure of the full circumstances, but Singapore has some very strict laws. If you're trying to produce explicit content in SG, you're in for a world of hurt. It is against the law to produce, import, distribute, transmit or exhibit explicit material.

Not a judgment against anyone producing OF content. Just kind of seems like martyring yourself knowing your country will absolutely prosecute you.

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Glad you’re not objectifying people anymore 👍

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