Recommendations on making friends as a couple? My SO and I (late 20s, married) live in a neighborhood mostly with people with kids and it’s been hard to make friends. How have people built community; I’m very curious to know what’s worked for you.

Has/would anyone in here marry someone outside their culture that is Muslim?

At what age did you stop ‘going out’ in the classic sense. I.e. pregaming, going to crowded bars and trying to meet new people, etc. I feel like at my age (26) I still feel young, but many friends....

My SO told me he wanted to take a break and I told him that we should rather break up for good but never heard back from him. During the break, I met couple of guys and things happened. Now my SO wants to be back in my life and I told him what I have been up-to. I gave him the classic “But we were on a break” line and he got more upset. I don’t think our relationship is salvageable at this point. It feels so weird few months ago we were so madly in love and now we are in this situation.

Anyone married but still have feelings about your ex? Like you love your SO but still have lingering feelings?

Getting induced tomorrow and still don’t have a name for baby girl! We have a polish last name, any ideas?

Any recommendations for books for desi parents ? Politics , economics, world order , self help

My husband and I are both very ready to start a family. For those who have finished their PhD while pregnant or with a young child, do you have any regrets?

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

Let's get honest here. How many of you married/in serious relationship folks have developed feelings for someone else during the relationship?

I’m an attractive 42 year old happily married mother of 4. I’m not drop dead gorgeous but a 8/10. Dads of my kids friends text me to invite my kids to activities and additional sport practices. I’m pretty naive and assume they’re doing it because they like my kids. I don’t want to send the wrong message by accepting. Are they interacting with me because of my kids or because I’m attractive? If I bring my kids to the functions am I sending a message that I’m interested in something else?

How are people managing WFH with their kids? We have a 2 year old and 5 year old and my partner is also wfh. Small condo, no nanny. It’s freaking insane and my husband and I are fighting every day....

Need gift ideas that one can only buy in California. I am making a trip to CA first time after I got into a serious relationship, Bf won’t be able to come along for a reason. I want to get him something memorable. He is into fitness and health. All ideas welcome , no $ limit

Curious if there are any single parents that have more than 1 kid? Tempted to try for number 2 but being a single mom of more than 1 kid is scaring the $hit out of me.

Are there any well-off suburbs around Chicago where there's a significant amount of black or mixed race people? Significant meaning 40-50%+. I've seen a lot of nice black suburbs in southern and eastern cities but less in the midwest. In an interracial relationship and want to get an idea if there are any suburbs where our kids would feel represented or if we'll need to move down south for that.

Parents: If you had to do it all over again, would you have kids?

Why is being a mom and working in healthcare so difficult? I always feel like I am failing.

Anybody struggling with fellow associates in big law? Currently working with associates that will stab you in the back at all costs and don’t care about building friendships, etc. This environment is mentally draining and I feel like I am an outlier for being kind. Truly shows that nice people finish last.

How is the wlb lighthouse. I am working working longer weekdays but I am reserving time for family during weekend

Ladies - have you had any success joining women's groups or meeting other women who golf/want to learn? Most of my friends are not interested and a lot of women at the club seem to have their own little cliques etc. Not sure what to do

Mississippi lifting mask mandate as well.

For those in NJ (or I guess anywhere in the northeast), have folks considered getting/actually gotten solar panels? Has it been worth it? We have a consultation with a solar company soon (sun power) and don't think this is our forever home so think we may move in 10 years or so + I've been seeing a lot of cloud cover (on any given day) + whether to install a battery, all making me think that all of this may be a hassle that's not worth it....would appreciate any tips/insight/experience!!

People at my company claim to be supportive, promote great work culture but there’s actually no support at all just bunch of bs. I am in a situation where im not getting the support from my supervisors, BDs and everyone is fake all the time. I am genuinely putting in the work and not getting the benefits I deserve. What are some good companies to work for in Marketing/advertising in Toronto? Or how would u go about addressing stuff like this ?

Does anyone have any experience using Betterment?

Have you ever been asked to fill a role that has such narrow specifications and qualifications that it seems almost impossible to find someone? They are really looking for a unicorn and it isn't easy

Hi everyone, I have 2 years of experience as a front-end developer and am planning to switch, I am targeting only product based companies, I would appreciate the referral or any advice

Currently a manager at a boutique life sciences firm (eg Clearview, Trinity, Putnam). Debating between full time and part time MBAs. Want to stay in pharma but would make less by going into industry out of b school. Leaning toward part time, is that a mistake?

What will be expected salary in lesban Portugal for devops ,India having 28lpa

Hi Fishes,

I have 5+YoE and looking to go into Test team Lead position. Please advise about any courses/certifications for the same. What is the salary range for the position/YoE??

Hey 👋 just joined here and my second post . I started my construction business now for over two years working on residential renovations and looking to make the jump to commercial construction! Looking for a mentor who is knowledgeable of Commercial construction and can help me understand the ins and outs of the industry here in San Diego. Please reach out if you’re in commercial industry and would like to help. Would be greatly appreciated 🙏🏻

Can we keep bowl active atleast on Friday night?

Doing leetcode problems make me feel like, holy cow, I’m actually really dumb 😬 someone please tell me it gets better over time with more practice

What is it about Palantir that gets people so excited? I think they are in a good niche but it doesn’t seem like their tech is necessarily a differentiator. I think that there is a lot of value in both their data and their relationships but I don’t know how they have leverage these. I like the company and like the leadership but am a little bit confused about the valuation. I bought PLTR at $10 and am considering buying more but would like to better understand the story.

Anyone else required to put together completely unrealistic timelines?

Upper management's direction is to put together the most aggressive deadlines we can. If we think a project will take 16 months, make the plan for 10 months then there's a chance we may launch in 13 months.

I understand that time to market is important in consumer product goods, but being constantly behind schedule and rushing everything is terrible for the team's morale.

Is it a good time to join Apisero or I shall consider offer from cognizant? salary both are same

What can law firms do to improve lgbtq numbers? Beyond the meaningless empty stuff they do now.

I’m afraid none of my clothes will fit once quarantine is over

Does anyone have a connection at BayCare Health System? I have a ton of hospital consulting experience and looking to exit. Found a posting at BayCare that fits really well with my experience. Thanks!

Looking at neighborhoods for young person. I’ve been recommended lohi, west highlands, and sunny side but they’re all a bit $$ and I’ve found more affordable places in Capitol Hill area. Thoughts on the differences between these places?

I feel a little strange posting this here…but any recommendations for therapists in Denver?

I’ve been dealing with severe anxiety and depression for the past year, which has started to have very noticeable physical impacts. My PCP recommended therapy & SSRI medication, but I’m very weary of the medication route. I’d prefer to begin working with a therapist who could perhaps also provide an opinion/guidance on the medication option.

Car Tire gurus - Yokohama Avid Ascend GT vs LX. I live in CO so winter capability is important, but with a Subaru Outback the car already is well equipped.

Question is whether or not the GT is that much better in the snow that it is worth foregoing an extra 20,000 miles potential tread life with the LX.

I’m leaning LX, but welcome all thoughts!

Moving out of my awesome apartment across the street from Confluence Park around Labor Day. Helping my landlord rent it out- lmk if you’re looking for a studio/1 bed. $2000 in luxury building

Potentially relocating to Denver next year, moving alone (24F) know close to no one. What would be a good neighborhood to live in? Also considering boulder, but think Denver might be best (I like hiking and being outside, but also appreciate a variety of activities)

Any fun stuff to do over the weekend?

Anyone work for TCS?

I’m having a hard time understanding the salary /TC ranges for mid- to senior-level strategy positions in the Denver area (10-15 YOE). They seem to vary a lot, and are broadly low vs. other markets (mid $100k-low $200k vs TC closer to $300-$400k+ on the coasts). Any observations? Which companies would you look at for more substantial comp outside consulting?

Any recommendations for a contractor for a deck renovation?

What's your best advice for winter driving in this area? I'm a recent transplant and nervous about getting on the road in the coming months!

Hey I’m potentially moving to Denver in October wanted to get some recommendations on neighborhoods and price any help would be much appreciated.

Does anyone know of any law firms looking to hire a Real Estate Paralegal? I will be moving from Florida mid January!

Anyone at Deloitte willing to give an internal reference? I’m a disabled combat vet with PhD, strong research background in DoD, academia, and industry. Will certainly pass along my resume and chat beforehand if so desired!