Relationship is going pretty well apart from my partner being pretty unhealthy… I like to eat clean in general but she doesn’t like veggies and I’m a little fearful for our future family if she’s just encouraging them to “eat what you feel like” is there anyway to help change this behaviour? Any suggestions? It’s not like I never go eat fast food or what not, just that our frequency of consuming desserts has increased exponentially after we started dating and she doesn’t exercise either

Just had a surgery to remove a lesion that had 40% chance of becoming cancer. I had a group text to keep family & friends informed. Nobody from family actually called to check on me. Five friends called to see how I was doing and feeling. Parents are deceased, I’m the youngest sibling (+5 to 8 years older) and the only one anybody keeps in contact with. Time to cut family? They obviously don’t care what’s going on in my life. One sibling never even responded.

When I started in this industry, it was all about radio and direct mail. Now, most are doing video content and influencer marketing. What do you think our children will be influenced by?

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

Parents - any advice on when to start kindergarten? Our son has an end of august birthday.. concerned he might be behind if he starts while so you g but feels strange to start kindergarten at 6 years old. Would appreciate any advice from those who have been there already

My girlfriend treats me like a Furby.

If you could, which US city would you choose to live, work and start a family?

I felt like a walking zombie during thanksgiving, barely eating and barely talking. My family is small and I told them ahead of time my relationship ended. I focused on my niece and nephews, cried when I wanted to and slept from 8pm-noon for the last 5 days. Showered once or twice. That’s the best I could do and that’s OK right now. I’m back in my apartment, just trying to take it one day at a time, and not re read his texts too much. My birthday is Thursday 🙄

Please help me with this.

My fiancee is selected in Citibank and i also got offer from Citibank. We are going to get married soon.

Is it allowed to marry within company, or I'll have leave the company.

I'm saying this because i see in credit Suisse, you and spouse can't be working in same company. If they are then there are too much declarations and approvals. And both are investment bank

Does anyone have experience with a prenup/postnup? I have been wanting to get a postnuptial because I did not think about these things when I got married. We make the same salary, have separate accounts, but I have been building my wealth and working hard at saving my money while he has a mountain of debt and doesn’t save. It scares me to think if anything happens, he could just take half of my assets.

4 year-old pinches kids ears to the point of bleeding/laughs when they cry. We have tried everything; time out, safe space, replacement behaviors, telling him to touch gentle. At my wits end!!!

I’m (37m) considering leaving a 6+ year relationship because of mismatch libido and preferences. I want 2-3 times per week. She wants one phoned in session every 10 days. I’ve read every book and implemented every expert tip. She doesn’t seem to want to put in the work to find a work around. She’s pushing hard for marriage and kids but I’m worried I’m walking into a dead bedroom and eventual divorce. Has anyone here been in my shoes?

Just ended my 1.5 year long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I had been getting bored over the last few months and found myself questioning if he could be my “one.” I am 23 and am just starting my new job with GS and moving back to NYC. I am confident in my decision, do you all agree? I needed a clean slate for work so I can dedicate myself and not always be traveling to see someone who is still in college/has no career direction. Any advice welcome!

Divorce or not? Loveless marriage, but love our 2 children and enjoying being close to them. Seeing my brother struggle with joint custody and think this is not for me. Too lazy/busy to rock the boat.

All of the interesting people at the agency seem to work on other accounts. How do I make friends outside of my day to day team?

Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

Deeply struggling with the decision to get divorced or not, and it’s having negative mental and physical effects. Seeing a therapist but wondering if anyone can suggest additional resources to help

I struggle making friends
Whats wrong with me

I am so thankful for my husband. We’ve had a rough year. But when he just pulled up his calendar app, I peeked the “therapy” recurring event for every Tuesday coming up.

It took a really long time to nudge and ask and plead and toss everything short of an ultimatum at him to start this work on his personal and emotional development.

There were times I wasn’t sure anything would change, and I worried maybe I was just wasting time… but he’s still proving he’s the right one :)

Married couples - how do you handle finances with your partner? (Equal split, proportional split, etc.). What do you think works the best?

Looking for a Desi friend in Toronto-Durham area. I’ve been around white people a lot lately, and I can’t take it anymore.

Please don’t be a Modi fan.

Does anyone know the estimated market range for 5th year, mid-size firm (500 attys) in South Florida?

Any good idea for venues for a group event that would be fun and interactive as opposed to just a happy hour? Similar to spin on 23rd.

Been in the area for 3+ years but haven’t checked out the museums yet. I plan to cover one this Saturday. If you needed this nudge or are in the same boat…DM me and we can go together 😅😆

How do you keep up on legislative and policy changes in healthcare? Any good sources that distill this info?

Tax manager 1 salary in Boston? Big 4 and other national firms salaries please.

How is AWS AI/ML solution architect compared to D&A from typical consultancies in terms of WLB, type of work, amount of travel, benefit and pay? Anyone can share?

Talked to a LinkedIn recruiter who stated the range for a SM Comms role in the midwest would likely fall in the $140-160k range, w ~15% bonus and she didn’t state rsu’s as I imagine it would depend on experience. I’ve seen similar roles land in the $175-185+ range. Thoughts?

Looking to switch to a Senior Tax Advisor consulting role at advisory firm (not B4) with no prior public or consulting experience. Have 8 years of Corporate Tax experience in industry (currently a Senior in healthcare company). New role will be mostly focused on provisions. Any ideas on what salary range should be expected?

How stable is Mastercard? I have an offer from them and a food beverage company and my interest is definitely in mastercard but concerned about layoffs.
TC for both is 126k exactly so can’t base it off that either. I’m definitely way more interested in the tech space but like I said this economy is worrisome and I know food and beverage are the last to be affected.

Hello Amdocs fishes!
I wish to apply for Business analyst and IT business analyst roles. Please can someone refer me

Please DM me. Thank you kind people!

I am in tax, I understand concepts when explained to me, but feel like I can't make connections for tax issues or planning opportunities when I have a set of facts with me. I feel stupid...when I

I’m convinced it’s always just the same 5 people posting on here. Prove me wrong. 🤣

I’m looking for a McKinsey & Company referral. Can anyone help?

What’s knowledge sharing at your firm like?

Mine uses a portal you can filter by industry / type of work and artifact (proposal, deliverable, technique/approach, thought leadership). It’s useful.

Hello all,
If you are looking for referrals at AMEX please send me a DM with resume and a bit of info . Happy to connect and help !

Would you be concerned if a product manager candidate has basically switched jobs almost every year? He’s worked across many non profits & said funding ran out, etc, but hire team asks the question...

At what point do you think you should move in with your significant other or at least talk about it?

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

He is a 10 but he never cleans his air fryer, and change aluminium foil once a week

What’s a good non romantic birthday gift for a roommate? M gifting a F

Had a big fight with my gf last night (we live together), looking for advice. She’s a first gen immigrant and her niece recently returned from their home country. She was staying with her brother in law but he’s been drinking a lot so she felt unsafe. She came to crash at my place which I was fine with for a couple of nights. Yesterday she let me know that her niece needs to stay two weeks. She didn’t rly ask she just told me - which rly pissed me off. Am I wrong for wanting to be consulted?

Are there single people in here? WHAT are you doing different to get/meet a partner?

How to still feel confident when siblings or cousins significant others are richer and make more money then you? Or what if they are better looking then your significant other?

So something crazy happened to me last week. I was at the airport, and as usual on call after call. The check in line was going ridiculously slowly and at some point turned threw my hands up in frustration while looking around to find another place to check in. In doing so, I catch the eye of the behind me. He smiles and says something. I just sort of nod and carry on with my call. After that, he keeps trying to talk to me, eventually I got to the check, say bye and leave. At security… tbc

It’s been 6 years but still feel lots of jealousy about my ex and his wife. I’m married as well now, and I don’t have feelings for him, but can’t help but want the worst for them or for my life to be better. Anyone else feel like this? What did you do to get over it?

Starting to casually date again and I’m curious to know you alls thoughts on the being too available theory?

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

F, 32 years old here: Why is it that guys are so boring with their responses when chatting on dating apps? Are most guys just boring? Or are they just not interested (then why like my picture or match with me??)? I always feel like I’m the only one making jokes/trying to liven up the conversation.

How to overcome the pain of seeing someone you had feelings for get into a new relationship

Can someone please explain why some people bring up past emotional hurts during arguments even if you’ve apologized for them and they haven’t happened again? But they still feel the need to weaponize this moment and throw it in your face. And before anyone asks, no it’s not infidelity… just looking for advice/insight here