Salaam. Needing everyone’s advice. I am a male tithing 34 this year, iA. Family constantly asks me when I am getting married. Rishta aunties and uncles can be frustrating. Everyone tells me that according to desi culture since I am getting old I should be married by now. I ignore all the time but it can get stressful at times. Any M or F in a similar situation and has advice for me? Thank You.

Home for Christmas. My mom just told me my dad was diagnosed with some rare blood condition last week where your bone marrow stops producing enough new blood cells. More tests later this week, but until then no one else knows and we aren’t talking about it because dad doesn’t want to and they don’t want my grandma to know. Getting stoned in my old room because I don’t know what the fuck else I’m supposed to do right now. Yay!

As a Muslim, how comfortable are you at Deloitte with its culture and people? I got an offer and considering it

I’m miserable living alone (unmotivated etc). Just waiting for my boyfriiend to get a house so we can move in together

Feeling so overwhelmed. Trying to find the balance between an ambitious career and raising a toddler. Feel like I am failing on both fronts. Just can't seem to wrap my head around... (Cont)

I know this is a different kind of heartbreak, but I just had to make the difficult decision to go no contact with my parents after years of toxic and narcissistic behavior. It’s a weird feeling of immense sadness but also freedom. Can anyone else relate?

Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

Why is being a mom and working in healthcare so difficult? I always feel like I am failing.

I recently Got an Offer from PepsiCo Gurugram location for Software Engineer, Anyone working in that location? How is the office culture there?

My boyfriend doesn't like to talk about his feelings. It's the time of year where he lost his sister (passed away) very suddenly and idk how to bring it up to him. I want him to know I know it's that time but feel like he'll just yell at me.

I have a confession to make: i dumped my boyfriend of 1 year because he is a real jerk. Then, i set up a profile for him on Grindr and i added his phone number in the profile, now he get dick pics

Hi ME fishes, I need an advice. I am doing internal consulting in the U.S. and received an offer from MBB Dubai. How is WLB and Culture? Does it suck traveling every week to Saudi? internal consulting WLB isn’t great but I am sure MBB in Dubai is much worse. Should I join? I am Arab and married by the way.

Anyone have any thoughts on account management culture at TBWA NY?

Thanksgiving is upon us. Send help.

My step in laws are TERRIBLE. Not directly to me but family dynamic is stressful. They parent their youngest kid with pills and ignoring him, so that he does inappropriate things around me with zero correction (walking in on me, insulting me). They are all half siblings (4 boys 30-11) so they all don’t care including my partner. FIL also verbally abuses MIL in front of us. Yet they all want to please him constantly. It’s just bad.

Food was good though.

Does anyone manage without having a nanny? Kids age 0-10

How is the work culture in DI Gurgaon office

Hi there,

I’m thinking of a career move. Does anyone have experience of AD roles at either McCann Health / Ogilvy / RAPP Well ? Keen to understand the culture if possible. Thanks

Man I forgot how wild hometowns can be. Ran into an old friend in traffic at a stop light he rolled down his window and I asked him how he’d been he said he’d walked in on his girlfriend of 3 years cheating on him last Sunday. I don’t even know where I’m going with this that was just something I didn’t think i’d hear while driving

Has anyone stayed in contact with an ex because they genuinely were a good person in your life at the time? I find it hard to completely block someone out just because you may have been incompatible in building a future together, but I’m curious how often you chat moving forward?

Need gift ideas that one can only buy in California. I am making a trip to CA first time after I got into a serious relationship, Bf won’t be able to come along for a reason. I want to get him something memorable. He is into fitness and health. All ideas welcome , no $ limit

Off topic
I'm 25 m from Rajasthan
My CCTC is 12.5 I'm getting an offer of 20 in banglore. But my dad doesn't want me to relocate, he says you should now settle down. Try for govt jobs private job bakwas h, otherwise find a job nearby.
I told him i have no interest in gov jobs to which he said disgustingly " interest nhi h baad m yaad krega " this sentence broke my heart,i dnt want to be disrespectful, but i feel guilty now as if I've let him down
Dnt knw Wht to do now I'm clueless

Can I get 15 likes so I can DM please!!??

What are the big 4 RTO policies looking like? Firm wide? Office specific?

Hello Globers

Anyone working with Fiserv Solutions Or Banco de Sabadell Clients.
They have relevant openings for my stack, but they are Banking Projects. I had heard banking projects are strict with their security. Will they ask to report to office or any other measures we have to follow

Has anyone interviewed at palantir for deployment strategist and/or know the process?

Please help in offer evaluation from Pay, wlb, job stability, visa/immigration.
Location:Bay area
1. Product manager at Walmart $220k TC(Base 170)
2. Project manager at Linkedin $200k TC(Base 150)

An agency owes me money - it’s been four months. At what point do I file small claims?

Hey ,for onboarding in IBM they are asking vaccination report of two dose.But I have taken only one. Is it necessary to have that 2 dose report compulsory.?
Plz help me guys.

I am an RN & obtained a Masters of Science in Healthcare Informatics. I am seeking to pivot into Clinical Applications, but it’s quite challenging with no experience. Any ideas & suggestions are welcomed!

Hello. Need some advice on the salary range I should be seeking for a Student Recruiter position at a non-profit in nyc. I have 3.5 years of experience mainly in project management. Is 75K too high?

Looking for advice on breaking into the L&E litigation field. I’m a rising third-year general litigation associate at a v10 law firm in NYC where I’ve gotten to work on a couple of L&E cases. My job search for L&E roles has been a bit of an uphill battle, because most of the roles require significant L&E experience. Would it be a bad idea to take a non-partner track role in an AmLaw100 firm’s L&E group in order to break into the field? What kinds of jobs would I be marketable for afterwards?

How to get Id card.I am being boarded virtually!

Anyone looking to sublet his or her apartment for a few months?

Have never been able to pay attention when stressed. On current engagement, everything (internal & client) involves lots of people and moving parts and I can't think or be productive. Even in one-on-ones I've failed. Often nod yes by default even when I haven't understood, and try to recreate it alone later. Must have gotten bad coz this week someone gave me very simple printing instructions in front of others then asked me to replay them. Really offended and hurt me but maybe they have [cont]

Hi! Would anyone be able to help with a Vizient referral - Pharm analytics, Syneos Health, or BCBS TX?
Thanks!

Are there any agencies that are willing to pay for relocation? Looking to make a move out to WC. I know this is more likely for VP+ so I’m curious which agencies have the flattest PnL

Why is it hard to find *Indian* Muslim men? I am open to other nationalities, but it would be great to find someone from my home country.

I have a dumb question.. is the first odd night tonight since it’s now the 21st (US) or was it yesterday since it was the night after an even day?

Haha it's a mix of product management, project management, product development, consulting work, technical stuff, analytical stuff. Literally anything the project needs to succeed haha

Any Financial Services consultants here? Interested in connecting and expanding your network?

Anyone wonder why wealthy Muslim countries like Saudi Arabia and the UAE are not taking in Muslim refugees?

Has anyone tried halfourdeen for their marriage search? Wondering if it's worth the investment 🤔

Eid Mubarak, fish fam!! May you all have a wonderful celebration 🎉

what’s the weirdest thing you’ve seen (or experienced) on a Muslim dating app?

My 3 year old niece while holding her little hands up 🤲🏻- “Bismillah please give me green slime.” These are the little Duas she makes 😅.

Age? Gender? Location? Fav food for suhoor and iftar? GO!

Any of the males in this group feeling attacked on here? Disturbing!

Jummah Mubarak Fam! 💚