Seeing a guy whom I’m not into AT ALL but he works for FAANG as a software engineer and makes a lot, is this a good reason for me to be with him?

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Why are these questions often coming from the same firm. Is there collusion 😂

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I suspect it’s because the mods worry there would be few posts left once you take them out

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I mean, no? I want to date someone who is enthusiastic about me regardless of my job...

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My gut instinct is to say “absolutely not!”, but if we’re being honest, love/feeling-based relationships haven’t exactly had superior outcomes either. Sometimes relationships with a foundation built on material things can work - i wouldn’t necessarily judge that aspect of it so much as i would encourage you to make sure that your expectations of the relationship are mutually understood and beneficial for both parties.

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Yes if you’re a gold digger 💰💰💰

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Really not fair to FAANG guy, and will ultimately result in your hurting him when you start cheating on him while taking advantage of the lifestyle his FAANG money brings.

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Something is wrong😂

That’s putting it kindly!

Doesn’t sound great but whatever works for the both of you.

Women do it why can't we

Straight women do it.

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Lol...you are in big 4. Don’t underestimate yourself, if you want more money, apply in FAANG. I bet with a bit prep, you will get there.

So you will have more money and you don’t have to date someone you don’t want to

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