Seeing my boss in person soon and haven't shared my news yet. I'm definitely showing a lot even though I'm still early on in my second trimester. Should I say something before we meet in person so it's not a total shock at the office? I was out on mat leave less than a year ago with my first so not sure if this second one will be received so positively this soon after.

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Are you ready to tell your boss? They may assume your body just changed shaped after the first.

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No one will ever say anything if you don't, even if they have any suspicion. If you're not ready to tell your boss, that's in your right. I also find loose, patterned blouse or dress + blazer does wonders to hide it. Lol. I told my manager at 25 wks but wasn't ready to share more broadly until 30 wks so I did make an effort to hide for as long as possible😅

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Don’t share if you’re not ready. And whether or not they receive it positively that’s on them. Don’t think about it too much. You’re doing you and you don’t owe anyone any explanation. Congrats on the baby and I wish you a safe and healthy pregnancy!

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