Seeing someone and we have sex almost every single time we see each other. Not just once, but two or three times. The thing is that whenever we have sex, he is very into it, but he never ends up ejaculating. His excuse is that he has a lot of endurance/stamina or that it maybe because of stress since he works crazy hours. It has nothing to do with finding me attractive. I give him blow jobs and they are great, but again, he doesn't cum. Could this be a health issue or is he just not that into m

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It’s 100% a health issue. Don’t pressure him Don’t worry about it. Listen to his words. If he wasn’t attracted to you he wouldn’t get hard…

He might have a self pleasure addiction in which case it can be helped…

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? No. Just like women can fantasize, ‘getting hard’ is not solely about what’s in front of you.

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Probably medication. Had this problem with lots of guys on anti depressants/anxiety meds.

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Yep. Had this issue before I switched meds.

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It's stress. Happened all the time when I first started dating my now wife. Please don't take it personally.

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in my experience, if he can get hard he’s into you. everything after that is usually a him problem and not you.

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Exactly what I thought A1, how did so many people commented above without anyone thinking about how would he have kids if he doesn’t ejaculate 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️.

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Probably chokes the chicken before y’all link. Wouldn’t overthink.

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Are you able to finish? If yes, enjoy it!!!

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I dated a guy who said he taught himself to do this so that he could have multiple orgasms and last longer. Said he felt everything, just wouldn’t ejaculate. It was a fine line for him to walk though to make it work. He wasn’t always able to control it

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It could be nerves. Maybe he is so into you he is too nervous.

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Could be medication too. Have been on meds that made finishing a monumental effort, even if everything else was going great.

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Lexapro definitely made finishing an impossible task

So he just stops and says he’s done?

Viagra? Will enhancers do that?

Is he wearing a condom? Usually I can’t finish in a condom (but 100% pro safe sex)

Second. Can’t finish w/ a condom.

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He might be taking endurance pills to delay ejaculation. It’s not a matter of attraction to you

Is he orgasming? He can do that and still not ejaculate. It's not common, but I once dated a guy who had dry orgasms.

So he might have a medical condition, or more likely he's on a medication causing it.

Note: he is finishing, so don't treat it as he's not. Some women would find this the best of both worlds 😄

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This is ED. He either has a physical or mental health issue going on.

It is a sexual disfunction. Not necessarily ED. I struggled with something similar after a back injury. Made my SO happy though

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If he is used to edging, then it will take a long time to climax. So, he could be edging. Other possibilities are that he’s into nofap or semen retention.

In my experience it's been medication, porn addiction, depression. It's not you. Do you want to continue a relationship and care about this person? There's a lot to work through and unpack. Good luck.

Has he talked to a doctor about this?

It’s not you, he’s either edging or has some sort of medical issue. Honestly unless you guys plan to get married and have kids I don’t see what the problem is. It’s like a dream come true!!!

He’s prob on anti-depressants & it affects his sex drive

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