Seeking advice on how to gracefully accept bonuses you feel you deserve? I’m a plaintiff’s attorney in a small firm (1 associate, me and two partners). My salary is about 18k lower than market. I stayed because I genuinely do like the work and I was promised bonuses when finances allowed (no clearer policy/structure than that). I struggle with how to handle bonuses because I am grateful but I also feel like I deserve them given my low salary.

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1) you should leave and get a pay raise
2) what’s the situation where you need to accept it gracefully? Like they give you the bonus and you’re looking to see what to say in response? I’m dumb and likely am missing something

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Thank you.

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A simple thank you.

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