Septum piercings (non-cultural ones) give me the ick. M🐠 what are other things that give you the ick in potential partners (women or other men)?

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When people say "give me the ick"

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Fair, I felt similarly about “give me the ick” when I first heard it, but the phrase does help adequately convey the feeling in simplistic terms

For me: ear stretching.

But wait…so the cultural ones do not give you the ick? Like the fact that they are cultural makes it non-ick in your brain or would the person with it still be unattractive to you?

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Good question. I understand that septum piercings can be cultural and my brain finds that okay because of the historical, religious, or cultural relevance. However, the modern septum piercing on random women feels forced and occasionally feels appropriative which is icky to me…and also just looks “off”

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I absolutely didn't like piercings on a potential partner. Hated the earlobe stretching ones. Then I met a guy who had all the possible piercings you could get.... Fell for him, hard.
I just looked past the piercings because he was an amazing human. Didn't even register them in my brain anymore.

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Tattoos

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Nope, in my 30s and have a preference. No need to insult me about it

Bad tattoos that can’t be covered up.

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Long nails.

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Very unhygienic

A hair protruding from a woman’s left nipple is no appetizer.

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This is so specific 😂

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