Serious question: is anyone genuinely happy that they’re a lawyer and enjoy what they do on a daily basis? I’m not talking about the joy we get when something is over/resolved. I’m taking about the actual daily work.

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Enjoy is a strong word that I usually reserve for things like “time with friends” or “a great glass of Scotch.” But am I satisfied and intellectually challenged by what I do? Yes, a majority of the time.

That doesn’t mean I’m not burnt out from the pandemic or I don’t hate several 200+ hour months in a row, but I’m usually stimulated by my work and that’s what’s important to me.

I think everyone needs to find what they need from work and seek that. Is it enjoyment? Intellectual stimulation? A passion project you can completely immerse yourself into? An easy paycheck so you can fully enjoy your time away from work? Everyone is different and what they want from work is different and that is okay.

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No.

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I did in non-COVID times. The pandemic has wreaked havoc on my childcare schedule. Working from home has also been hard on top of that due to the strategies and coping mechanisms that I had for my ADHD that worked for me.

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For me, it’s having the transition times, set boundaries of work/not work, and body doubling. I’ve set aside dedicated work area in my house where I sit down and work everyday but the others are really hard for me to accomplish on my own.

Hard no.

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I love it. 90% of the time. The 10% I don’t love is usually technically not job related, like handling the fallout when paralegals turnover.

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Me! I honestly love my job! (Though as a disclaimer I have just started my legal career, so perhaps that will change in years to come?)

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Sometimes? I enjoy the intellectual stimulation, some of the crazy fact patterns, and most of my colleagues, but am feeling the burnout, especially when I’m working on a matter I dislike, have to deal with difficult counsel, or work with partners with poor project management skills who randomly request help with “urgent” projects. Sometimes I love my job and other times, I want to leave the law. But until I pay off or significantly pay down my student loans, that’s not a viable option.

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It’s exhausting in every aspect but the life it gives me is worth it. I would go mad-Er in a non-legal field

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I really do, but I didn’t always. I spent a few years at a really terrible firm and was incredibly miserable, depressed, and anxious. Then I got my current job almost two years ago. It’s not perfect but I’m genuinely happy most of the time. This outcome was inconceivable to me when I was at my prior job though, but it’s possible, I promise!

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Happy maybe 20% of the time.

Yep I love it, I've switched jobs/practice areas every time I stayed unhappy for awhile. Keep at the process of elimination and you can probably find a niche that suits u best

I actually enjoy my job. I was in a bad place a couple years ago as I was dependent on others for work and it was always a struggle to get enough work or to do all the work only to have my billed time cut so the person I worked for could and did bill my time for themselves. I have my own work now so I am in a good place now.

Hard neh

That’s a no.

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