Has any 🐡 dealt with the death of a one’s parent? My dad’s got stage 4 cancer and I’m afraid mom won’t cope if he passes away. Going already through the worst case scenario through my mind 😐
In a week, I have a black tie wedding coming up at a beautiful indoor/outdoor city venue. I’m stumped about a dress because I’m also 3 weeks postpartum from my first child. I gained 50lbs during my pregnancy and have already lost 35 since the birth. (It’s amazing how much of it was just baby + bloat!) I am looking for a dress that will hide the mommy tummy (some loose skin that’s still tightening). I’m also nursing and my boobs are HUGE rn. Any recs on how to try to dress this new body?? 🥲
30+ single ladies: how do we lead better lives as singles? I’ve dated a lot of egoistic narcissistic jerks in the last few years. Losing hope that there are decent men left in their late 30s.. I want to have a meaningful life but don’t know if I’d be able to raise a child by myself. I don’t have many friends in the areas I move around for work. Dreading the day when I won’t have any support system. How should single women approach life in 30s when bio clock’s ticking and its all darkness..
Fishies, has anyone set up a taxable investment account dedicated to taking care of their parents’ after life expenses? My parents don’t have much savings and I think it will be up to me and my sibling to fund the costs. We are both in our late 20s /early 30s so thinking we can create a shared account to invest money in a index fund. Then hopefully decades later we can use it on our parents. I’m also open to other suggestions and any general advice on taking care of parent
Hypothetical here: you are a parent and your child got into two schools for undergrad. The first school is a US top 30 University out-of-state, but you have to pay full sticker price ($60k+ per year). The second school is a good in-state university and 20% the cost. If your child goes in-state, you agree to invest the residual ($50k per year) in an S&P 500 fund that releases upon graduation. What is the best outcome for your child?
Looking at leaving big law for a small boutique (I would be attorney 3). Current firm offers 16 weeks paid parental leave; small firm is 12 paid. Is 12 reasonable/enough?
28 weeks pregnant and have to decide whether I am willing to fly to India to conduct workshop with my offshore team. My obgyn didn’t say anything. However my colleagues said...
Been 2 weeks and I am tired of pumping. I only pump like 20-30 per session and 5x a time but each time it takes almost 1h from start to finish (lube the flange, gather the equipment, find a spot, find my water/food, pump, clean up and put stuff away) and I am not even washing them (hubby is doing that). What did you do to make it more efficient? Also I can't seem to figure my flange fitting. I follow the guidelines and the suggested one is more uncomfortable than a large size. Help.
Just ruined Mother's Day weekend with somehow getting on topic of family issues. Congratulations to me! No coming back from this 🍾🍾🍾
So not really digging my husband physically anymore. He is a really sweet guy, great father. He just doesn't care about his health as much as I do. What should I do?
Can someone who has a login click the below and give us the lowdown? What agencies really don't care about parents and which really do? https://www.campaignlive.com/article/best-worst-ad-agency-parental-leave-policies-2020/1673159
Hi everyone! For those that feel comfortable, would love to see the breakdown AFC > eggs retrieved > fertilized > embryo > genetically normal (please feel free to include other steps, add in more numbers/details). I've read the averages of how it gets narrowed down, but always prefer hearing real breakdowns. I'm in the process of my first egg retrieval and trying to stay realistic. Really appreciate it!
Who brings a crying baby on a 6am flight? 🙄
Does anyone know what the paternity leave allowance is for UKI? Regardless of what Shared Parental Leave. Just paternity leave only? I read on some policy its 2 weeks? Is this true? Mothers get 9months full pay and dads only 2 weeks? Can someone who has recently taken pat leave confirm please?
Ladies, I know Deloitte has 16 week parental leave. What’s the policy for your company ( BCG, Bain, McKinsey, PWC, Etc)? Thanks.
Currently a few weeks left on parental leave and have had a potential opportunity come up with a smaller firm that I think makes more sense for my career goals. The question I have is: assuming I get an offer and the details work out, how do I navigate leaving? Should I provide notice right away? Go back to my current firm for a couple weeks and then give notice? I certainly don’t want to burn bridges. How would you feel on the other side?
Is getting an Ed.D worth the cost for someone with no aspirations other than staying in the classroom? I’m already at the top of the pay scale, so I wouldn’t get anymore money.
D folks. My H1b extension is under process. However I just got done with my current project and looking for a new one. While on the beach, does D file Extensions just stating home locations or ...
What’s the minimum annual base salary needed to justify a $2.5k 1b1b apartment in NYC? 100k, 120k, or 150k?
If you are on an FWA, do you need to meet your FWA utilization hours every week? I.e I am 75% so do I need 30 charge plus whatever admin hours to mercury? I am talking to my people consultant and she seems to think so. In a job that is highly seasonal, how is this possible??
Hi everyone, I’m looking for product analyst/associate product management roles. Please let me know if you have any opening for a product role in your org! Background : Analyst, 1 YoE at Deloitte (Consulting) Any leads appreciated, thanks!
Question: How long would you stay in a role where your work was never appreciated by your managers but had great feedback and recognition from your customers.
Anyone having spectrum Internet issues in Manhattan area all day today? Love WFH except the moments when I have outages and my team thinks I’m lying lol. And connecting to my phones hotspot is inefficient
Thoughts on moving from mid-tier A1 Tax to Big4 A2? Got some government audit experience and a year of Tax. What comp should I expect?
Quick vent: fiancé and I were going to put an offer in on an apartment we loved before all of this Covid stuff happened but changed that plan to rent to buy starting Aug to be safer. The sellers just told us they accepted someone else’s offer to buy. We, especially me, were in love with the apartment but we were too risk adverse to buy now bc if Covid and fiancé working at a startup that had layoffs in the beginning. Just sad bc we’ve been looking for two years and this was the perfect place.
Donald Trump is the literal representation of a clueless consultant trying to BS his way through client presentation for which he knows nothing about.
This is about to be the first month in my life where I'm unable to pay off my credit card statement balance (about 2.5k leftover) and I'm feeling like such a failure. Any tips on how to mitigate the impact of this and get out of the hole asap?
What’s the compensation expectation for a senior accountant role/job offer in the DC Maryland Virgina (DMV) area? Years of experience is from audit/public accounting 7 years.
My career goal isn’t to make it to MBB or a unicorn or FAANG. It’s to feel fulfilled and challenged as I progress. I can’t be the only one that isn’t title or company chasing.
For those of you who had to go through egg freezing but didn’t have insurance cover your medicines (except lupron which is usually covered), which discounts did you apply to the other three drugs to minimize the cost? ~7k for injections is so much...
"Almost 40% of millennials work every day of their vacation" No offense but that's just f#*$ing stupid. Stop that.
Im in audit but looking for a Financial Planning and Analysis role when I leave the firm rather than Accounting role. Any suggestions while I am in public accounting on how to get the right experience relevant for an FP&A role? Perhaps do a rotation but not sure to which SL.
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