Seriously wanna divorce my wife who’s not necessarily a bad person but I feel angry about her all the time. I always have to fight with her over the small things. I feel she’s playing a power game and trying to take control whenever she gets the chance.

The only moment she steps back and be the person I want is when I get really angry and she can sense it. Why do I have to do this every time to get peace?

No kids, but even I am not afraid to divorce, I don’t feel it’s worth it!

My girlfriend broke up with me through text with, “it’s not you, it’s me”, text…welp….

My husband told me today that he cant handle another busy season - i.e me working all the time and he taking care of our two year old girl after his work. Cant say I blame him - but I feel drained

Please help me with this.

My fiancee is selected in Citibank and i also got offer from Citibank. We are going to get married soon.

Is it allowed to marry within company, or I'll have leave the company.

I'm saying this because i see in credit Suisse, you and spouse can't be working in same company. If they are then there are too much declarations and approvals. And both are investment bank

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

New to Phoenix! 30 year old consultant. Ideas on how to make friends? 😁

What companies are most likely to put up with a lot of personal life turmoil? I'm very responsible but there are some family issues and such that might require some time off or some random interruptions.

Is everyone faithful to her/him after marriage? Or is open marriage an alternative to save marriages?

So my fiancé and I are having a microwedding in Rocky Mountain National Park next year, and we’re working with an elopement planner.
She sent over a sample ceremony (intro, sweet poems + passages to be read, and example vows), and we read through it last night. I was reading it out loud while my fiancé made dinner, and it just hit me that this is really happening. I’m just really happy that I found someone who is willing to take a vow to spend his life with me and I’m so excited for that day :)

Been in Boston for almost 2 years now. I was pulling long hours for the first 6 months on boarding and haven’t made many pre-Covid friends. My lack of a social circle here makes me want to go back to nyc. Any recommendations for someone who basically moved right before a pandemic and hasn’t made any friends yet?

I just found out one of my students dad passed away. Any strategies to support when he returns to school?

What is a good all around first art activity for Kindergarten through 6 th grades that can help me get to know the kids?

Anyone have a spouse/partner who is a picky eater?

I grew up with two french bodybuilders for parents and enjoy super minimally seasoned, whole, unprocessed foods (yes, we were the weird house for not having goldfish as kids), and I live with my handsome man from a beautiful Mexican family who cook with many flavors but also eat out a LOT.

He is okay about my cooking as it is 90% veggies, but some nights he’s blunt that he’s picky, and I whine about going out. Thoughts?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Is it messed up to want my gf to move in with me for financial reasons? We have been together for 6 months and about 4 months in I knew I wanted her to move in. But then things got really rocky. After that happened I realized I now would have to wait for us to build some foundation before asking her to move in. I am now thinking about it and her moving in would be the easiest move ever for her. It would also save her about $1k/month. She is looking at places near my place also. (cont.)

A good friend just matched into a residency program and, while I do feel very happy/proud for him, I mostly feel regret.

We both trained as EMTs in high school and he’s followed the path to the end; meanwhile, I prioritized $/time and am staring at a useless ppt that will be in the trash by next year… and although I could still go into medicine, my competitiveness to not start so late (6 years behind) and face financial ruination in 30s makes me balk.

To the younger 🐠: follow your dreams ASAP

Trying to get a 45 y/o sibling in to consulting (was an entrepreneur prior in the restaurant industry). No college degree but willing to bust his but to learn. Books/online courses recommended pls

I'm planning to move with family to Kochi inorder to join in one of the company in infopark. Please suggest good place to get a flat or house to stay with small kids.

I find myself doing “favor” work for friends and family somewhat often. I don’t want to charge them, and just trying to help them out of a unjust situation. However, I wonder what my risks are here.

Change Management consultants who exited consulting, what roles have you taken on in the industry?

Anyone see a therapist regularly? Been in a funk the past year

Anyone have contacts for LA-based recruiters / or recruiters that focus on the LA market? Plz DM me or post here. I have a creative and digital agency background, and am looking to jump cities. :)

Can you leave a company 6 months after?

I'm curious how many people who currently have their CPA think it was a waste of time, or wouldn't get it if you did it over again. Probably applies to people who have left PA the most.

What is the best way to answer the question "how would you approach this job"?

Accenture is offering me 9.2 (fixed) + 21% Variable for Level 11 (Application Development Analyst) Tried to negotiate as much as I could. I was expecting atleast 11 LPA as fixed.

Experience: 5.5 Years
Notice: 60 Days
Current CTC: 7 LPA (including 6% Variable)

This is my first offer. I am in two minds to take a decision.

1. Accept and look for other jobs within 60 days
2. Just wait for some more good offers before resigning.

Could you please advice.

What is the average salary of a portfolio manager ( equity side) at a Long Only shop with 5-10 billion AUM. Based in CA with 10 plus years of experience & a CFA Charter holder.

Hi Fishes,

Got offer from MUFG (30 LPA) and Cognizant (27 LPA) . Need some input specially for MUFG Bangalore in terms of Projects, wlb, Growth etc.

YOE -8 , Data migration

Has market correction happened for L7s? What is the avg fixed component for L7 and L8 after market correction.

Talking about D&S and C&I

Hi, I got an offer letter from oracle as software engineer. Offered package was 17.91LPA including pf (17 fixed )

My YOE: 3.6.

CCTC: 10.5

Tech Stack: Java, Spring Boot, Microservices.

I already have an offer of 19LPA(16 fixed + pf + 2.4 variable + 2 JB).

Can i show this to oracle to revise my compensation?? will they consider it??

Today, i had 5min of discussion with recruitment panel of wipro and took screenshot of me during video call.

Got invite like Wipro TAF Screenshot.

Can someone tell me what is it?

Anyone joining DI Kolkata in 10th oct?

Hi I struggle with behavior questions I don’t know how to handle it could someone please help me with it

Hi Fishes,

I'm holding 4+ years of experience in .Net/.Net Core, MVC, Web API's, Angular and SQL.

If I switch what should be the expected package?


I'm new here, help me to get 11 likes.
TIA

Hi…how long does IBM take to send the FFS and experience letter?

I work as a staffing supervisor and in the beginning it was really rough and I’ve decided two months in that I was going to quit. I advise my current job that I was and they decided that they wanted me stay and they agreed to move me to a different department that was less stressful and more up my alley. But they haven’t done anything yet and Although I’m not in a rush I’ve had more time to think and I still want leave the Company. i’m not sure I will to find hospital job in New York ..

Do you present slides better (to senior stakeholders) on or off stimulants? If off, how do you manage your schedule so you can present articulately and concisely?

Engagement Managers & Project Leaders: how on earth do you successfully lead on a tough client project?! Difficult enough for ADHDs to execute tasks let alone effectively manage people and synthesis their insights where you benefit the client and impress your colleagues!!

How do you all manage exercise and meds? I take vyvanse and have a peloton, but am kinda scared of the heart rate increase combination. I find the vyvanse takes about 2h to kick in and so I try to take it by 6am otherwise I’m dealing with the “hitting me” feeling when at work (which has resulted in some really embarrassing situations). In the evenings, I’m so hungry that a workout is harder to do plus you never know when the work day will end!

How are we coping with this adderall shortage??? My pharmacy can’t even order it 😳. Ahhhhh.

I've always had trouble with things like attention, focusing, and feeling constantly overwhelmed. I started to feel hopeless, feeling burnt out (even worse than my old job). I spend hours diverted when I know I should get work done. I decided to get an evaluation after learning a lot more about ADHD. I was diagnosed as Primarily Inattentive and they are starting me on meds immediately. Will things get better from here? Will, I finally become a productive human being? Should I tell my manager?

If you never lose stuff can you still be ADHD?

How do you guys do so rejection hypersensitivity doesn’t ruin your daily work? I’m going through a break up right now and I can’t focus at all.

Last time I had a bad breakup I lost my job due to the impact in performance, I’m really worried

Has anyone tried Done or Ahead online subscription for ADD medication? I’m getting to the point where I need to start and it’s becoming too much but wasn’t sure where to start

How do you deal with the following - 1) lack of general organization in life, note taking, keeping track of your relationships and 2) attention to detail. These 2 things have been bothering me a lot. We all are smart as hell but silly mistakes such as spelling mistakes, broader checks to be done on the deck is killing me. Also I feel the lack of organization in personal life blows into professional as well. If you are a consultant how do u deal with it ?

As someone with ADHD, the impulsive side of me speaks up in meetings without fully processing the information. Then when corrected, I beat myself up for the rest of the day.

What has ended up happening over time is that I have started to come off as an introvert (because of the fear of being wrong) and also with low confidence. This is not a good trait in client facing roles where we are constantly making recommendations and clients look up to us.

Anyone else deal with this?

How to “double-check” on stimulants? I know I need to triple check things all the time but never actually do it on stims. It’s like it makes you DO DO DO without thinking and pausing to reflect!

Any good audiobook recommendations for motivation and tips on productivity?

Does anyone have experience with non-stimulant medication? I’ve had bad anxiety from Adderall in the past and I don’t know what to ask for when I see my doc.