When did you decide not to come back from maternity leave? Is it wrong to not know if I want to come at all?

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Not wrong at all. I think about it every day!

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I guess it’s hard bc I genuinely dislike my job too and it’s causing so much stress.

I don’t want to go back, but I’m the breadwinner

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