Should I tell my friend that his boyfriend slid in my DM’s?

I’m hesitant because I kinda like the boyfriend before, but he was more interested in my friend. They’ve been dating for two years, and I don’t want to come off as jealous.

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Maybe ask you friend first if he and his bf are open? Find out some information first before you let your friend know. Or you can confront his bf and say “aren’t you and X together?”

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Definitely trash.

Maybe you can have fun with them both 😋

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Why would him sliding into your DMs make you come off as jealous? If I were you, I’d pursue it secretly if your friend isn’t that close.

Y’all are terrible! Tell your friend. Anyone who is in an exclusive relationship should know when they’re SO is creeping out. If your friend reacts badly, you can choose to no longer be friends, but never put yourself on the wrong side of your own morals and values

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Why would you need to tell him?

I decided to mind my business and not entertain this. Thanks man!

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