Small misunderstandings keep happening between bf of 2 months and I. Any advice?

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Communicate those small misunderstandings with each other so you’re on the same page and move forward together. If your communication sucks then breakup.

Need some examples.

Sit down and have a serious conversation once for all. If it keeps happening then you need to reconsider the compatibility between you two.

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