Women In Consulting

SO has issues keeping it up. I’ve asked what I can do to make it easier/more enjoyable/etc. but he just has to be in a very specific mood. Understandable but disappointed as I have a higher drive

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon
works at

Anyone have issues with this? I don’t want to feel like I’m pressuring him all the time but I can’t help but feel that way if that’s the reaction I get.

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

He should stop watching porn or masturbating. When he does orgasm while watching porn, he’s teaching his brain to chemically bond and get aroused by 2d objects which is why perhaps he’s less “in the mood” with you...

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Age of SO? If younger do they smoke a lot of weed? On an anti-depressant? He should rule out a medical reason if he’s younger. His hormone levels could also just be a little out of wack and need some adjustment.

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Yeah he’s pretty healthy. I mean I don’t want to make a thing out of it if it’s just his personality....just gonna suck though further down the line

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Seeking answer to same question but not with an SO. Dating in general but feel majority of men after 30 are not able to stay up or perform in the same capacity of men in their 20s. Brought it to their attention diplomatically as an experiment to see what happens and the results were less than desirable as egos were bruised no matter how "nice" I was being about it.

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Are we dating the same people? I'm dating one now and it's been a bit frustrating. For both of us. My approach has been to be patient and not make a big deal about us taking a break to cuddle a bit. Removing pressure and finding out what turns him on. Tbh, these guys are probably doing self care too hard so the real thing doesn't give the same sensations they're used to getting off. One thing we tried was having him not self care for a week or two. It was hard but it seemed to help for that moment. What seemed to work better was to figure out what sensation really got him going then see what part of sex gave a similar feel. Once he does well a couple of times, it seems to give him more confidence to do it again next time. My guy has been staying up much longer now that he's feeling now confident on multiple fronts.

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

I wouldn't necessarily take that to mean he lost interest in the moment or bored Any anxiety can take over and pull him out of the moment. My guy perks up anytime he gets a peek of anything but it takes some mental effort for him to stay up. Too much effort and the whole thing is done. It's a fine balance and that's where I don't envy them.

Reaction Icon Like
like
Arrow Icon

Related Posts

joining D next week. Is it possible yet to get the iPhone 8 as my work phone?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Me and my SO make $320k, we have a child with special needs and we live in expensive Boston suburb, because of the public school system. We’ve been renting 2BDR 1500 sq feet for the past 6 years, our current rent is $3100, and our lease expires in the end of June. Landlord wants to know if we plan to renew for the same price. We can potentially look into buying kinda fixer-upper, ask for lower price or move out into bigger house. Thoughts?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Any old Land Rover Range Rover P38 fans on here?

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

What do I need to watch now that I became compensatory

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

is it though?

Post Photo
likefunny
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

I am currently going through 3rd round of interview at a tech firm and I’m not sure if the employer is aware that I need visa sponsorship - should I check with HR? I don’t think there was a screen for visa sponsorship

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

I am on a 2 year GC due to my wife being American. It’ll expire in June 2021 and I have to apply for the 10 year one. I unfortunately don’t expect the economy/unemployment numbers to be much better at the end of this year with how bad COVID is handled. Let’s say Trump continues to be president and feels like he should extend strict immigration policies on visas and GCs, could my new GC be in jeopardy?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

New to exiting. How does one go about reaching out to random alumni/connections on LinkedIn with the goal of learning more information and securing a referral? Is it expected or awkward?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Any recommendations for a dermatologist in NYC?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

New hire - when do you typically use LAB, other than for mandatory assignments?

likehelpful
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

I just found out that the specialist path is being extended down to the analyst level. Certain schools will only offer “Specialist Analyst” where they only get 65k a year and not eligible for GSAP wtf

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

How do you guys track your time? Any tools you’d recommend?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

How to make call center/business loan work sound fancy on your resume? Basically calling people to help them finish their unemployment benefits app and entering loan app info into SBA portal

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

I have a senior analyst friend joining in Sep. Are all the new-joiner analysts this summer/fall getting locked into the call center upon arrival? Any tips I can give to my friend on how to avoid?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Are mid size firms hiring in tax?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Anyone else feel a kind of bittersweet delight working in a dying industry?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Dated a girl for almost 2 years. Broke up a couple weeks ago, but having a hard time staying away. I know I need to cut ties entirely, but struggling to pull the trigger. Anyone else experience this?

Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Wear a mask

Post Photo
likehelpfulfunny
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Sometimes I wonder if I would have joined the firm if I knew firm initiatives were required. I am super passionate about my client work and do a great job, yet that never feels like it’s good enough 😐 Has anyone found firm initiatives they actually find fulfilling?

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Any recommendations for a home office good chair ? Have some left over wellness subsidy I could use as well

like
Reaction Icon Like
Arrow Icon

Download the Fishbowl app

That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what’s it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Sign in here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview