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SO has issues keeping it up. I’ve asked what I can do to make it easier/more enjoyable/etc. but he just has to be in a very specific mood. Understandable but disappointed as I have a higher drive

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Anyone have issues with this? I don’t want to feel like I’m pressuring him all the time but I can’t help but feel that way if that’s the reaction I get.

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He should stop watching porn or masturbating. When he does orgasm while watching porn, he’s teaching his brain to chemically bond and get aroused by 2d objects which is why perhaps he’s less “in the mood” with you...

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Age of SO? If younger do they smoke a lot of weed? On an anti-depressant? He should rule out a medical reason if he’s younger. His hormone levels could also just be a little out of wack and need some adjustment.

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Yeah he’s pretty healthy. I mean I don’t want to make a thing out of it if it’s just his personality....just gonna suck though further down the line

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Seeking answer to same question but not with an SO. Dating in general but feel majority of men after 30 are not able to stay up or perform in the same capacity of men in their 20s. Brought it to their attention diplomatically as an experiment to see what happens and the results were less than desirable as egos were bruised no matter how "nice" I was being about it.

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Are we dating the same people? I'm dating one now and it's been a bit frustrating. For both of us. My approach has been to be patient and not make a big deal about us taking a break to cuddle a bit. Removing pressure and finding out what turns him on. Tbh, these guys are probably doing self care too hard so the real thing doesn't give the same sensations they're used to getting off. One thing we tried was having him not self care for a week or two. It was hard but it seemed to help for that moment. What seemed to work better was to figure out what sensation really got him going then see what part of sex gave a similar feel. Once he does well a couple of times, it seems to give him more confidence to do it again next time. My guy has been staying up much longer now that he's feeling now confident on multiple fronts.

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I wouldn't necessarily take that to mean he lost interest in the moment or bored Any anxiety can take over and pull him out of the moment. My guy perks up anytime he gets a peek of anything but it takes some mental effort for him to stay up. Too much effort and the whole thing is done. It's a fine balance and that's where I don't envy them.

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