So have a dilemma. I work with someone when after making a mistake they act like it’s no big deal and don’t admit they messed up. But when I make a mistake they call me out and make sure it’s known! In addition I feel like they are paying close attention to me waiting for me to mess up big so they can look better in managers eyes. It’s very passive aggressive- but how to work with someone like this?

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Not work related but you just spoke every husband’s mind!!

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I would speak with them one on one about this and ask them to stop doing this.
If situation doesn’t change in next few weeks, I would schedule a meeting with manager.

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Good advice. Make it clear that you don’t accept that behavior. I would also start a log of their behavior.

It’s not passive aggressive. It’s narcissism and very dangerous. They want to put you you down so that they can feel better about themselves. Run!

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YES. Work with someone exactly like this. I don’t have any advice except to try to distance yourself as much as possible

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