So have a first date after ages (gee thanks Covid). My country has Covid under control before anyone panics.
Anyone wanna give me a confidence booster since I have totally forgotten how to flirt and generally have a great first date.
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Figure no one wants it but the update is it went very well! Thanks for the advice friends


Second date???

Try to be yourself, relax, be present, and don’t think about how the other person is receiving you. Maybe start meditating for 5-10 min everyday leading up to the date - this will train you to be present and to use your breath to relax.

Also, I know there’s a lot of pressure since this is the first date in a while, but remember that it doesn’t have to go perfectly. Maybe you two connect, maybe you don’t. Either way, just be present and enjoy yourself :)

Also what country are you in?


Thanks for the advice! Will give meditation a shot!

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Assuming ur a male: go into the situation not worrying about what you’re going to say or how you’ll impress her. Instead, go into the date thinking in what ways will she be able to impress me? Psychology make yourself the superior in the situation.


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