So how do you go about explaining needing to pump? My first day back is coming up and I’ll be in an all day client meeting. Do you just say ‘I have to pump around 9:30, 12:30 and 3:30’ and leave?

Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Yes be straightforward. When I was wondering about the same thing on how to approach this - I got great advice that the less women and working moms vocalize and are candid about these things - the less the rest of the workplace will understand and normalize it if we try to down play or hide it. If more women are upfront about pumping, breastfeeding, childcare needs, etc. - the more people will get exposed to it and accommodate more!

like

Yes, agree! I said that I was breastfeeding and needed to schedule time to pump or use the mother’s room. The men just said “ok” and looked like they didn’t want to talk anymore about it so they didn’t bother or question where I was after that 😂 I carried my pump bag with me and some people thought it was just my regular bag.
But yes, don’t hide it or feel weird. It’s a matter of fact so treat it matter-of-factly.

like

Yes, I would tell whoever needs to know that you have to pump those 3 times. I didn’t when I first started out and felt like I was sneaking around and people didn’t know what I was up to. It wasn’t a good feeling.

I would also see if you can figure out ahead of time, where the pumping room is, if you have to reserve the room to pump and what refrigerator you can use (if you need one).

Good luck on your first day back! I know it isn’t easy. You got this!

likehelpful

Yes just leave at those times. If you know the person who owns the schedule, you could also just ask them to schedule the breaks at those times - I used to run the agendas for a lot of our client meetings and my staff person just told me what worked best for her and that’s how we did it.

like

Totally agree you should be transparent about it- but as said above ... be prepared for the most uncomfortable looks you’ve ever gotten 🤣. Almost all of the project leaders I had to tell (over multiple kids) had the deer in the headlights look

like

Lol same 🤣

Agree with all previous posters. Transparency is best for you! Also, this will help normalize pumping at work and help create a more understanding environment for other women. Motherhood should not be in the background. It is a major part of our lives and we don’t need to pretend that part does not exist just bc we are at work or in a male dominated setting. Happy pumping mama!

like

Yes

Agree with everyone above. I never had any issues with internal or external clients when I asked if they had nursing rooms and explained that I needed breaks. Everyone was always very accommodating and it was never weird. If you treat it like a normal thing they will too.

Related Posts

Hello fishes, I have joined EY GDS on June and allocated to a project. But the project is not started yet because of pending approval from client side. So I am sitting idle for 2 months. Since I am on probation for 6 months, does this have any impact on it. Do I need to inform this to anyone or ask for alternate project/task?. I had interaction with my counsellor only once till now and he is it aware of what I am doing.

like

I feel lucky my family didn't catch covid19 from me- there is no way to really protect them

like

Hi All, For B8 position having 8 years of experience in Project Manageme ,how much should someone quote and negotiate with the HR.

like

Hello,

After onboarding in Deloitte USI Hyderabad do we need to report immediately from next day to office as per hybrid model or we can continue wfh until assigned to project

Hi! Trying to leave a toxic work environment that is not good for professional or personal development.

Any willing referrals to
Gilead Sciences, Facebook (Meta), Google, Visa, Mastercard & Amazon

10 YOE, customer service, patient experience, executive/administrative assistant, project/program coordinator, & leadership (external).

Any assistance helps! Thank you!

like

For SR Devs,

Hit my 5 year mark as .NET dev (I have much more skills than that btw ) On a very complex project in which I lost another dev bc attention was needed elsewhere.....

It looks like I’m going to go 0/3 on my MBB apps :( Where are the next best consulting firms to go to assuming that my primary goals in no particular order are MBA placement, compensation, project/industry variety, and ability to be promoted quickly?

like

Hi how is HSBC client in LTI ?

like

I have three different teams trying to duke it out to put me in their project. As a junior level staff, I just feel like the belle of the ball. #HumbleBrag #RoseCeremony #HashtagsDontWorkonFB

Post Photo
like

What would you do if you found out you are the lowest paid employee but the one who pulls late nights, weekends, is always available. When I say lowest I mean the other two project manager are making twice almost three times as much as I make in a year. They can’t be bothered on nights or weekends and do the bare minimum to get by. I can’t decide if I dig in and work harder or give up and set the same boundaries they have.

like

Hi fishes, I have recently joined Infosys as Test Analyst with a 9Lpa package. I don't want to join any client project and want to join some internal project where there will be less work so as I can prepare for government jobs. Is it possible? Which are the units for less work pressure in Infosys

like

Hi, I have around 7 years of experience and going to join TCS next week. I want to work on development project.

1.Can I join TCS digital?

2.Is there any way I can get development project?

Tech stack: java Microservices.
Location: Bhubaneswar

like

Team, need assistance on how to handle additional non billable work request from client after completion of a 6m assignment. Trick is director/partner either support the request or turn a blind eye.

like

Regarding travel to client sites for stem OPT; what happens if you travel? I don’t get it. Is it that you need to be in the home office when an agent comes to verify or what’s the deal?

I am interviewing for project coordinator role in finance/tech. My interview with the hiring manager went well and I have an upcoming interview with the VP and an executive director. Any tips or tools on how to prepare? Also what questions do top executives appreciate? I already discussed culture and role related questions with the HM.

like

Looking for a full time mid-senior level Project Manager in the DC area or interested in moving there. Agency side!

like

Hello Fishes,
Can you please suggest, what should I mention as expected CTC for a role in the Managed Services Team at Mobileum , Bengaluru?

Note-
Worked at Mobileum for 1.4 yrs, till mid April22.
Will be joining the same project with a different role.
Total YOE - 2yrs
Current CTC-7.5LPA

like

Is anyone a program or project manager at an agency that doesn’t have an account layer? Do you think this model works? Do you share the responsibilities with other team members?

like

Hi All, looking for your suggestions, please. I'm working in Australia as a TA Partner. In my current company, they offered a yearly hike of 4% for all employees who is in the particular slab amount. But I'm not happy with the rise because I'm supporting as a recruiting sys admin and involved in the project works along with my BAU. How should I approach for asking a pay raise? Is it a good time to ask as I got the 4% last week?

like

More Posts

Kirkland & Ellis Kirkland & Ellis

like

When it comes time for me to write my dissertation, the only way I can actually write it is if someone buys me a grant so that I can afford to make the time to write it!

like

Hi all, Anyone knows, if we get full variable allowance in Infosys or not, I got an offer which reflects 20% variable. Infosys Tata Consultancy

like
like

Starting Wednesday - when should I expect my laptop? I use an iPad Pro for personal use so I currently do not have another laptop to complete the on boarding activities with if mine does not arrive in time.

like

Larsen & Toubro Infotech Hi Fishes,

Plz help me with the companies, I have offers from L&T infotech and Thomson Reuters.

With respect to job security (priority) and work life balance, which company is better. Kindle help with your knowledge. CTC offered are same for both.

Larsen & Toubro Infotech Thomson Reuters Infosys

like

Hi fishes,
Can someone please suggest some study materials for proficiency assessment in functional test planning?

like

Is a CASP+ worth anything? Does anyone here have the CASP+ as their primary certification for employment?

Hi All, this bowl is dedicated for Advanced Micro Devices Inc. (AMD) India employees. Please feel free to join for any meaningful discussion.

Intel Corporation Nvidia @Advanced Micro Devices Inc. Qualcomm Micron Technology Google

Thanks.

like

My son was assessed as having level 2 autism this past school year and my research as I learn about ASD makes me suspect I am on the spectrum as well. ADHD is often a co-existing diagnosis with ASD. Is anyone here diagnosed with ADHD and ASD? If so, what are some things you do to make things easier in your work?

like

About to start a job at JPMorgan Chase (nyc) in one of the data science teams. Any advice, tips? Not sure what to expect.

like

Hi fishes,

I found different user login related bugs in a website that hamper the user experience.

What is the correct procedure to report those bugs?

Also, can there be any potential scope to get bug bounty for the same?

How to approach this?

I'm planning to send an email with the details of the bugs to the customer care and feedback email of that website.

Thanks a lot.

like

Hi can anyone refer me at one opening in Siemens please!

Hi Fishes,
I am in final stage to get offer from
Microsoft India ( CSCP) as Data and Applied Scientist. HR asked me my expectations, I just wanted to know how much salary I can expect.

Here are my tech stack and experience

Education : M.S. Statistics
Experience : 8 years in Statistics , Data Science
Current CTC : 46 Lacs ( 42 fixed + 4 bonus + No stocks

I am not aware of Microsoft payband, need your help in salary negotiation. Microsoft

like

Had an interesting juneteenth discussion with my friends this weekend. One mentioned she toured Thomas Jefferson's plantation and I told her I was shocked she even set foot on a plantation as their continued existence is disrespectful to our ancestors. She disagreed and stated she felt they had historical value. What do you guys think should all remaining plantations be destroyed or preserved to maintain historical value?

like

Hi Folks,

Anyone who have joined
Walmart Global Tech, recently.
I have few questions related to the onboarding procedures. please help.
Have few queries to ask and it will be great if anybody can come on DM

Thankyou

like

I’m currently being asked to undergo a background check. 9 years ago, I was caught for drinking underage while in college. I subsequently went through a diversion program. I’m now being asked whether Iv ever gone through a pre-trial diversion, which is what I went through. I don’t want to be penalized for something that happened 9 years ago. Advice? What should I do?

likesmart

What’s your experience with Spiro for hormonal acne and bloat?

I just recently promoted to HR assistant manager. I have my PHR and working towards my SPHR. I am the lowest paid employee in the depth. We have a senior specialist and a general specialist both make more than I do. They have been employed longer with the company. What is your advice on this issue?

like

Additional Posts in Consulting Moms

Any suggestions for lifestyle coaches or bloggers or any podcasts? I am in a need to make changes for myself. Feeling very low on energy consistently and would like to research on things myself.

Bouncing back and forth every day in my head between taking unpaid LOA and powering through with crappy performance. No childcare, 3 small kids. Ugh.

like

I’m about to make a step-change in my responsibilities in that it’ll be my first time managing two concurrent projects + teams.

Any advice on managing multiple clients and teams, plus Practice development while keeping your family going too?
What habits/ best practice keep things running?

I have two toddlers. Currently have a nanny 40hrs a week but looking to supplement with some daycare hours soon if we can manage to get in anywhere.

like

Hello Mammas!! Any moms in LA with a newborn that would like to do meetups? I have a 7 week old and I chat a lot with mom friends about tips and tricks. We have so much fun! I think its so interesting to learn from other moms! I am on maternity leave until November so if anybody is interested in doing this let me know!

Post Photo
like

Weaning baby now (he is four months). I have a big freezer stash and it’s in the deep freeze so it will be good until next December. Is the better strategy to constantly give baby some breastmilk every day until I run out (like 8-10 ounces a day or something, mixed with his formula) or is it better to just give formula and save the freezer stash for if/when he gets a cold or something, and then mix it in liberally only then)?

like

My daughter is with my mom for a few weeks, I reluctantly let her go. My daughter has a phone that she uses as a tablet (don't ask lol). I have FB messenger on it. Last night my mom went through my FB messages between my sister and I and is now mad and upset with us because of what she saw. We have a complicated relationship with her, she left us when I was 14. I feel bad about what she saw but I'm angry that she went through my messages. What are your thoughts?

like

Do you use a forehead thermometer (non-contact), which brand? Would you recommend it? I’m not happy with the ear thermometer..

Posted this awhile back, but no responses (it may have gotten lost in the shuffle). For those of you who decided to leave the firm at the end of your maternity leave, how did you handle the process? Did you give notice just before you returned? On your first day back? (Dealing with Covid-related child care issues - not starting a new job in the short-term.) TIA! Appreciate this group’s shared wisdom.

like

Mothers of strong willed children - any book recommendations for learning how to manage and not completely break their spirit. My 8 yr old may kill me. She’ll probably be a CEO if I don’t lose my shit first.

like

Best books about single parenting?

like

8 weeks pregnant, was planning to drive home (~14 hrs) for Xmas, but now super nervous to travel. My OB said she’s never seen so many miscarriages (bc of Covid). My family is careful, but not as conservative as I am with visits/seeing ppl. What are other moms to be doing over the holidays? Not sure if it’s worth it but know my parents will be super sad not to see me, husband & 1yo. 😔

like

Bay Area/San Jose moms - any recommendations for nanny agencies or nannies?