So I need some advice. I matched with a guy on this dating app and we were chatting for a few weeks on and off. I felt like we could have a good connection but he hasn’t messaged back in almost a week and I’m wondering if it even makes sense to send him a message or to just let it go.

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Let it go! Also if it’s been a few weeks and he hasn’t initiated a date, he’s a time waster - move on! No penpals 👏🏽

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Who chats for weeks and doesn’t meet up for a date?

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Keep pestering him, don’t give up. He could be the one.

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It’s been a pretty busy week for most people. I’d say shoot him a quick message like “hey, how was your thanksgiving?” Or “how’s your week going”? If he doesn’t respond, move on. No big deal.

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Sorry you're going through this. I know it was unexpected, but maybe it's for the best

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Let it go. I'm sure he could spare some time to message you

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Move on

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Did he initiate all of the conversations? If I notice that I am the one that always sends out the first message, I will stop texting first altogether. That might mean the ‘fling’ goes nowhere, but I would rather it doesn’t if there’s a communication issue. It’s a sign for me at least that the communication, and possibly even the relationship, will be imbalanced.

He initiated and reached out! Definitely get what you mean about having an imbalance and I feel like having that early on sucks

I mean this is the nicest way, but boy am I happy to not be dating nowadays.

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