So I was seeing this guy before the pandemic who I really liked. We went on a couple of dates but bc of my toxic work culture I began treating him like shit. He wasn’t the most communicative either, but I felt like I jumped the gun too fast and said somethings out of impulse. Looking back, we could’ve handled that much much better. It was a really intense time in my life but now that things have settled down, I find myself thinking about him a lot. Should I reach out or should I just let it go?

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If you're having second thoughts, I would say reach out. Be ready to apologize. And don't expect him to be open to reconnecting. Play it by ear.

I will say that if you haven't changed your ways and that was what caused the immediate issue, then don't even bother.

Taking your frustrations out on someone is not okay. I think it happens to all of us from time to time, but if you're doing it regularly, particularly to one person or one type of person in your life, then you need to fix that first.

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how did it end?

you can reach out but don’t expect him to respond any certain type of way

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I mean you can always try, but don’t blame him if he’s not receptive. I know I wouldn’t be if someone treated me like shit and tried to come back to me.

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We got along so well but I feel like I just fucked it up. I was projecting my insecurities into him and he was really patient. I feel like I came off as a little psycho when in reality I was just projecting my anger and aggression into him. I feel dumb but understand if it’s a dumber idea to reach out to mend things again

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reach out. you have nothing to lose. worst case scenario, you get rejected. regardless, you’ve reflected on the situation and seem to have grown, so you’ve already gained something from this experience

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